I got bashed at work today

[Jacqueline]

There will always be haters honey, you are bigger than him and is b.s..

Had i been there, i would have wipped the pavement with him, but then im just a big dood in a dress lol.

Smile and dont let the bastard win xxxx



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[Charlie Nicki]

You know the first thing I thought was, he sure knows a lot about SRS for such a bigot (closeted ->-bleeped-<- perhaps?)

Anyways, sorry you had to go through that sweetie, hopefully you'll be more prepared next time. You don't even have to argue or be mean, haters go absolutely crazy when you just laugh at their rants and act like you're completely unbothered. Try it

[Lucynewman]

All that really makes me angry. I have a daughter. If someone even tried to convince her I was embarrassed of her in any way I feel like I'd get violent. My little girl is my angel, and my love would be every bit as fierce if she was albino, trans, lesbian, two-headed, or listened to nickleback. If anyone in our family even implied she was an embarrassment I would cut them out. I try to tell her all the time how proud I am of her, and the idea of some tool bag causing her to doubt that for even a second is unacceptable. I'd bet money your dad feels the same.

You look unique, and beautiful. Anyone that talks like that needs to go to jelly school, cuz they just ugly on the inside and ugly sad little people feel like they have to destroy beautiful things. At least when you look in the mirror you get to see a goddess, while he just sees dan. Pity him.

Also, idve placated him to get him in the chair, and then given him the worst cut in the history of hair. But, I'm evil.

Nothin but ♡

[suntanlotion]

So sorry Julia. I just came out myself. I still wonder if I am a freak bla bla... but then when I realise i'm much happier this way, I don;t feel like a freak. My girl stayed with me but I have yet to battle the family. Best of luck, but you;re not a freak. that guys is just insecure. Insecurity is not a simple thing. It;s harsh. It can cause a lot of turmoil for the one experiencing it. How they choose to react, though, is entirely their fault and have no right to react in such a way. Imo, screw him and his mother.

[MaxForever]

What a jerk that guy was I am sorry you went through that. I probably would have cried too so  you did the only thing you could. I hate people like that in the world.

[Alanna1990]

What he said to you is absolutely horrible, you should have called the police or something, I can't stand that kind of people, and I agree with what the girls say, you're better than him, and those people are so disgusting they're doomed sooner or later.

I have a similar problem but directly with my dad, He is the only one who doesn't accept me, so I may move soon, the best thing you can do is to take the people who don't accept you out of your life.

[Shellie Hart]

Unfortunately I grew up with a lot of dysfunctional and downright terrible people. Guys like this almost always have one thing in common -- they dislike (or hate) themselves and they don't know what to do about it. Treating someone badly like this helps them to feel better, but only for a short while. Then they need another "fix." They again attack someone else they perceive as helpless/defenseless. Deep down they are cowards. Such a sad reality of human nature...

[suntanlotion]

Unfortunately I grew up with a lot of dysfunctional and downright terrible people. Guys like this almost always have one thing in common -- they dislike (or hate) themselves and they don't know what to do about it. Treating someone badly like this helps them to feel better, but only for a short while. Then they need another "fix." They again attack someone else they perceive as helpless/defenseless. Deep down they are cowards. Such a sad reality of human nature...

Uhh so true. Sad truth, but so true.