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Started by steph2.0, September 17, 2017, 11:42:47 PM

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Laurie

 Wonderful adventures with good friends and all challenges overcome. Good job (S)((te)ph)(a)n(ie) and Cassie. You even triumphed over Christine.

Hugs,
  Laurie

   
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Kendra

Wow, quite a trip!  And I recognize D from the New Years party at your house - he is awesome. 

Trailer tires and spare tires don't usually get used enough for the tread to wear out - but tires have a shelf life, after about 15 years small cracks can form.  Here's how to determine when they were manufactured.

Years ago I was riding my Harley late at night, had to swerve to avoid tire parts on a dark highway.  And there was a truck and trailer parked on the shoulder - someone waving, hoping I would stop.  I did and it was four guys who were frankly quite drunk, all of them obviously too wasted to be driving.  Trailer with a flat tire - one of them asked "do you umm have an tire jack?" holding onto corner of the trailer so he wouldn't fall over.  Um, no I'm riding a motorcycle.
They asked if I could call for help in the next town (this was 1995, mobile phone service wasn't available on back roads in the middle of nowhere).  Theirs was a tandem trailer, no jack necessary - driving one tire onto a rock or a sore foot would have worked.  And then I realized they had four motorcycles in back, could unload one and ride that into town.  I didn't tell them either fact, figured it was best if they stayed right there to sober up... I headed down the road and enjoyed the Wyoming night sky. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Northern Star Girl

Hey Steph:  Thank you for posting your updates about your road trip and your other adventures.... and your pictures documenting your journey... including your transition adventures....  great to read and look at... they are terrific.   ....   
.....and of course all of us can identify with the flat tire issues.  I loved your description about the tire place that you passed by and didn't bother to stop....  "12 teeth among 4 guys there" .....  ha, ha, ha,.... yes, you made the correct decision to just go on by.

Thank you for posting... please keep your updates coming.... and pictures too !!!
Hugs,
Danielle
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steph2.0

Quote from: Kendra on March 31, 2018, 10:03:07 AMTheirs was a tandem trailer, no jack necessary - driving one tire onto a rock or a sore foot would have worked.  And then I realized they had four motorcycles in back, could unload one and ride that into town.  I didn't tell them either fact, figured it was best if they stayed right there to sober up... I headed down the road and enjoyed the Wyoming night sky.

That is hilarious! And you did the right thing. I wonder if even sober they figured it out...



- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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KathyLauren

So good to read your updates on your latest adventure!   ;D
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Sarah_P

Truly an adventure worthy of the bards of old!

Worst trailer mishap I've had was on the way back from a convention. We were driving a mini van with a small trailer hanging off the back (think the smallest one U-haul has). We were just a bit north of Raleigh NC (or was it Durham? Whichever one is to the west) when I suddenly had to brake & swerve onto the shoulder because there was a huge torn up truck tire in the middle of the lane. Traffic was heavy enough that I didn't see it until the people in front of me quickly swerved over. My sudden braking caused the idiot behind me to slam into the back of the trailer, pushing the entire assembly into & under the van.
Thankfully this happened right in front of a rest stop, so we were able to call for assistance (we didn't have cell phones then, 1999 I think?).  We were stuck in Raleigh for a few days getting it repaired.
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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Kendra

Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 31, 2018, 10:18:14 AM
That is hilarious! And you did the right thing. I wonder if even sober they figured it out...

- Stephanie

I haven't been on that road since, but if they are still parked there 23 years later I guarantee they won't recognize me. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Jayne01

That was quite an adventure, Steph. Thanks for sharing. And I second that you made a wise choice avoiding the 12 teeth among 4 guys tyre place.

Jayne
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LizK

Wow Steph you have been a very busy girl since my last visit. There is so much there to comment on I don't know where to start!! Thanks for sharing all of it.

I love you post for TDOV and I hope it makes the difference with those whom you need it too. Just being out there and being you is testament to how far you have come in such a relativel short period of time.

Take care

liz

Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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steph2.0

Quote from: ElizabethK on March 31, 2018, 08:42:39 PM
Wow Steph you have been a very busy girl since my last visit. There is so much there to comment on I don't know where to start!! Thanks for sharing all of it.

I love you post for TDOV and I hope it makes the difference with those whom you need it too. Just being out there and being you is testament to how far you have come in such a relativel short period of time.

Take care

liz

Thank you Liz! I was surprised that my TDoV post on Facebook has already given dividends. A high school classmate has contacted me about one of her former students who is transitioning FtM. She asked if he could call me if needed. I of course agreed, and also sent links to Susan's. She was very appreciative. We'll see if I ever hear from her student.


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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LizK

Nice to be thought of though...I have a friend who is a counsellor and has a FTM in one of her groups. She has on occasions picked my brain about things such as etiquette. Glad your post is having such a positive effect
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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SassyCassie

That trip was truly an epic adventure.

I was honored to be present in so many moments that made such a difference in Steph's journey of womanhood. I got to meet many of the folks from her memories she had shared with me - people whom had before only been faces in pictures or stories shared in many of our conversations. I saw old friendships rekindled and some new ones blossom, since the removal of the cause for so much pain over the years.

All of the uncertainties about the folks we were going to see turned into happy reunions with her just being...herself.

Stephanie and I learned so much about ourselves and each other as the miles ticked slowly by. From rest stop to truck stop, through rain, sleet and snow, we drove on down those lonely highways. We battled fatigue, faced the past, slew ancient demons, met old friends, and made some new ones. We laughed, we cried, we held each other close when times seemed at their darkest. We stood together in the face of adversity, spat right in its eye, and not for one second did we let any hardship get the better of us.

My words cannot even begin to do justice to the level of growth we experienced on this journey, however. A lot of it, I know we are both trying to still process but the overall result had each of us reaching deep within ourselves to bring out the best parts of our souls to finally share with the world. Today, we resume our lives as before but with a new-found serenity that may, in some small part, make our world a better place to live in.
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steph2.0

Yesterday I had planned to have family over for an untraditional Easter dinner. My mom, her hubby, and newest family member Cassie were lined up to enjoy our world neighborhood household-famous steak kabobs. Health issues prevented the mothership and big guy from attending, so we invited a neighbor to join us.

This made me a little nervous, because I'd already decided I wanted to do something that had been my dream for what seemed like my entire life: enjoy a warm lazy day on the back porch surrounded by loving people, while wearing a pretty sundress. I almost changed my mind, but finally decided this was my home and my life. And it was fine.

I felt like I passed another milestone, as meaningless as it may seem to others. After my neighbor left, I spent the rest of the afternoon relaxing with my two favorite people in the world. The event called for pictures (or it didn't happen), so here you are:







Except for worries about mom, it was a wonderful day...


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Cassi

Nice!!!! BTW, I think the bottom picture with you smiling is probably the best one I have seen of you!  Should be cropped and be your avatar pic!!!!!

Awesome!
HRT since 1/04/2018
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steph2.0

Quote from: Cassi on April 02, 2018, 02:07:59 PM
Nice!!!! BTW, I think the bottom picture with you smiling is probably the best one I have seen of you!  Should be cropped and be your avatar pic!!!!!

Awesome!

Was actually considering that. GMTA!


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Cassi

HRT since 1/04/2018
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SassyCassie

Quote from: Cassi on April 02, 2018, 02:07:59 PM
Nice!!!! BTW, I think the bottom picture with you smiling is probably the best one I have seen of you!  Should be cropped and be your avatar pic!!!!!

The camera was hanging from a tree and responds to both hand gestures and voice commands. It wouldn't stop taking pictures as we approached, and by the time we got to it to shut it off, we were both cackling hysterically.

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KathyLauren

Great pics, Steph!  The first one, you in the sundress, is amazing: you are so curvy!!  Hubba-hubba!

Sounds like an awesome day!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Kendra

Quote from: Steph2.0 on April 02, 2018, 02:03:22 PM
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This made me a little nervous, because I'd already decided I wanted to do something that had been my dream for what seemed like my entire life: enjoy a warm lazy day on the back porch surrounded by loving people, while wearing a pretty sundress. I almost changed my mind, but finally decided this was my home and my life. And it was fine.

It's no longer just a dream.  You are living it. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Laurie

Lovely day with three lovely ladies. You all are looking good.

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April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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