Hey Leslie, sort of brought a grin to my face when you mentioned upper body strength and bikes. I was always fairly light (~165 lbs), but very strong. I ride a mint old FJ1200 and just about two weeks ago I was just maneuvering by foot and I went to put the kickstand down and for some reason missed and the bike just got over center and I had to gently put it down. No damage at all, but I couldn't lift the damn thing up to save my soul! Had to get the backhoe and some straps and used machine muscle. I've lost at least 50% of what I had, but I don't mind too much because I just figure it's part of my figure re-shaping which is worth more to me.
I can get an erection, but only if conditions are right. Just this last weekend my wife and I were hot and heavy and she wanted to fool around the old fashioned way and I was having so much fun kissing her that it happened, I guess the between the ears thing just took over and surprised me. First in a long time and a little uncomfortable for me as my P isn't like it used to be, it's bent from, I think, urethra shrinkage (wants srs). Still, it was great for US. Probably more than anyone wanted to know, but it's part of the reality of what is happening to me and perhaps others. No secrets here. Toni