Okay so I told my mom about what my former boss at my job said about me 2 months ago. I was told this by someone at my job 2 days ago. She made some anti-trans comments about me and also said how Im trans because I have long hair. Another worker and a good friend defended me and said weather I am or not should have no view on how Im treated. She didnt like hearing this from him and it just made her more angry. Now I know why she treated me so awful and Im glad she quit.
It all makes sense to me now.
My mom was so angry and just said "well f** her" to me when I told her this. She was really angry about what my former boss said. This is exactly what my dad would say if he was still here. I know he's looking from heaven not amused by her hate directed at me. Again it has never been my family Im afraid of if they knew, it is outside people.
I dont often use the word but she is transphobic and a total bigot! So thankful she is gone!
My friend at my job denied these events took place to either spare my feelings or he doesnt remember it. Today by what he said, I think it was he didnt want to hurt my feelings at all.
This is why any replacement of her at where I work I think should be told Im transgender. This way we dont have this problem at all again.
There is gonna be more to this story soon but this is crazy and my moms reaction is exactly the reaction I would expect.
A reaction just like my dad how she like him loves me.