Quote from: CindyLouCovington on October 11, 2017, 09:45:16 PM
I frankly would not have thought that people down here would be that hostle either, since there are a lot of LGBT people here, and most of the trans women you hear about getting killed here were apparently engaged in prostitution which is dangerous. I maintained a Quiet almost reclusive lifestyle books gardening etc. I never angered anyone by allowing them to pick me up Pre-op or post op for that matter. at 67 years of age I was much too old even if I had been inclined. I mentioned how some neighbors invited me over to their NewYear fireworks party hugging me saying we were all God's children etc. then after I started to transition giving me nasty looks and the next year for the first time in 15-20 years not holding their new year fireworks party like now my presence made it unfit for "decent" people to come there meaning their relatives. and I started being harasses by Code enforcement, which acts only on complaints about some big rose bushes on my lawn. I always managed to get the complaints dismissed, at a lot of trouble to myself. the LAST time shortly before I was run down. someone wanted to get rid of me by any means.
I hope I didn't come across as hostile.
Look hon. I have lived around the world and all across the United States. I am not from here but the most idiotic drivers I have seen have been from SE and even to a lesser extent SW Louisiana. I has been a while since I have been to NYC but I had still lived in SE La then and they knew the deal in NYC. Down here they didn't back then and still don't and I doubt smart phones makes it any better.
SE La is a big time LGBT hot spot so I seriously doubt unless you pissed someone off if it was personal.
LOL prostitution, Louisiana is an open carry state. So as long as a pistol is not carried on your person and a purse is not a person, you can carry as long as you are legal and prostitution is not a felony crime. I have quite a few friends that "hook" in NOLA. They carry.
Seriously. My Boyfriend is a cop but not in NOLA and a handbag is not a "person".
I really don't know your situation but that is only my take on it... But now the mob works in many different areas. Make things right with them if so.
Yeah in cities, Code enforcement is worst than the Mafia. Rose bushes, not mowing your lawn and so on can get code enforcement involved. So live outside the cities. I prefer rural myself because of the exact same reasons you stated about rose bushes.
Louisiana is LGBT friendly regardless, especially SE but even SC and SW too. Hell I am from Arkansas and even they are LGBT friendly even if they can't totally understand the T too much but they do know and are trying. Arkansas is about as redneck as you can get. But they are at least respectful mostly but no less than anywhere else.
Have patience though. Hell my cousins husband who I thought would never like a "->-bleeped-<-" told me that he met one in NOLA after Andrew and she was badass. Then I told him about me and to him it was no big deal. To my cousin, his wife, it was but now not so much. He changed her mind. And this is in Arkansas. So times are changing and perceptions too.