Ok, I guess then stick with either nothing at all or maybe silicone for the first half year and then if the scars are ugly, one can try to make them better with Vitamin E, BiOil or later with laser or dermabrasion or microneedling - but basically all of these methods should only be used after several months, yes?
During the scar formation, basically not much can or should be done to influence it because it is just not well enough understood to really manage to steer it into one or another direction.
So it comes down to having good luck in the first months to have a minimal scar formation and if not, one has a few options to make it better. My problem is, that I apparently dont have much luck, usually, so I can try and treat the scars I already have, I doubt much can be done there to make them worse, but my initial question was more about if I can somehow risk getting a lip lift and avoid getting a scar from it with other means than having good luck with my scars this time. I am aware that if it does not go so well, there are various things one can try to minimize the scars once they are there, but I would like to try and avoid getting them in the first place.
My impression now is, that its not possible to ensure this - it depends on my body and on good luck, knowing my body, I dont see I can avoid a lip lift scar that is visible, so I cannot get a lip lift unless I accept getting a visible scar that may or may not later on react to various scar healing treatments.
So I probably cannot get a lip lift, which is why I also asked for alternatives - can fillers or a V-Y lip plasty help something instead?