I posted recently about this same thing. Take it as a blessing that people see you as a woman. Some in the community don't even have that. Some are so far in closet that they are still living and presenting as men in their day to day lives and they are dying to have what you have.
It's normal for people to compare themselves. Even those super attractive cis women you see are doing it. I bet you Scarlett Johansson does it.
My partner is cis and even she envies how I look at times. She's told me that she'd accept being trans to have my body (however I think she underestimates the amount of mental anguish that comes with that). I think she's crazy, but I guess so am I for thinking everything would be amazing in my life if I had her body. All of us get a sour lot somewhere in our lives. All good things come with drawbacks, and getting exactly what we want teaches us to be spoiled brats demanding more.
Point is, we all have to appreciate what we do get from life and not get mad that we didn't get more, because who knows, one day it might be gone... maybe I get in an accident and my face is ruined and then I'm wishing to have my old one back.
I'm learning to be grateful for what I have and not so fixated on what I feel like I'm owed. As my parents told me once as a child, long, long ago: "You get what you get and you don't throw a fit."
It will take time, but eventually we'll learn to not hate on ourselves so much. And maybe even *gas* love ourselves for who we are
