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GCS & BA with Dr. Ley at Meltzer clinic

Started by Kendra, November 04, 2017, 12:18:18 PM

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HappyMoni

Kendra,
    Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Congratulations! So happy for you. Bet you didn't even break a sweat doing it. lol You look amazing too. Moni
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KathyLauren

Yay, congratulations!!  I love the smile.  And the finger light: note the colour is pink!
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Shy

What a beaming smile Kendra  :) :) :) Now rest up and recover well.

Peace and love and all that good stuff,

Sadie
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Gertrude

Quote from: Laurie on January 16, 2018, 11:08:08 PM
Wish I could be there with you.
I could, but I didn't know she's here.


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Gertrude

Quote from: Kendra on January 19, 2018, 11:19:17 AM

Good for you. I'm in the town over. If you need anything, let me know.


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Margaret_B

You are beautiful and look so filled with Joy! Dr. Ley is amazing, I am now 14 days post op with her. The only advice I can and will offer is get up and walk around, take small trips get use to riding in a car. Ok there is a second and third piece... The Warmed blankets are amazing and if you need an amazing Burger Rehab burgers across the street is the place to go.
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Mariah

So glad to see your are doing so well.


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Kendra

Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Kendra

Comments on the finger light thingie are so funny you have me in stitches.

This is day one post-surgery so I'm still on bed rest. Yesterday was literally a blur - I woke up in the recovery center room with Saha there, and Beth arrived yesterday evening.  Almost no pain at all if I didn't move, so I quickly learned what not to move and move carefully.  All sorts of gizmos attached everywhere, a pain control button attached to the hospital gown.  I spent less time online than I thought I would.  I'd read a comment and another, and wanted to reply to each individual but it took a surprising amount of energy to focus - so I just read and didn't type as much.  I cannot fully express how grateful I am for all of us here, supporting each other.  You are all incredible and so appreciated.

At midnight the pain started to increase and at 1am I realized I needed to push the button for additional medication.  I did that and within 10 minutes I was very close to vomiting all over these stylin' hospital clothes and my ears were ringing.  Wrong kinda earrings.  I held my eyes shut trying my best to not puke - and I didn't puke, but it wasn't easy.  Another 5 minutes and the pain completely washed away or I didn't care, I was no longer aware of time.  The pain started back up, clock said 2:30am and I'm thinking do I want to press the puke button, I didn't want to, the nausea from that first button press was pretty intense.  At 3:30am I realized I was being an idiot, I should have asked a nurse for advice - so I hit the nurse call button.  The nurse was so helpful, she added an additional compound to the intravenous drip to reduce nausea and then I pressed the drug button.  She asked if any nausea started - a few minutes in I started to feel queasy, she waved an alcohol wipe near my nose and the nausea immediately stopped.  She said an odd smell will confuse the brain and distracts from nausea until the anti-nausea medication can kick in.  She also said if the nausea continued they can apply a shot in the arm which will definitely stop the nausea but that requires 40 minutes to kick in.  I didn't need it - I was able to hit the pain-med button every 60-90 minutes until morning.

I talked to my parents by phone this morning.  They are in Thailand until April, we will be spending a week together in Japan in early April and returning to Seattle together.  They were both surprised how well I sound.

At 9am the nurses removed all the liquid medications and a couple of the extra gizmos and I took 5 pills.  They told me what they are but I don't remember or really care - I'm not a doctor.  :)  Okay I think one pill was Flitzrubpf, one was Gltydrdlx, etc.  It's now 13 hours later, there is some pain and discomfort but not a huge amount - it's quite bearable.  My queasy stomach is more bothersome than the pain and that's better than the opposite.

Dr. Ley came over today, she was between surgeries.  I really like her.  We chatted, she said my procedures went as planned without any complications.

A surprise.  My electrologist in Seattle had flowers delivered to the hospital with a note of congratulations.  Yes I did cry a bit when I saw that - happy tears.

Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Jessica

I'm so happy for you Kendra.  Best wishes from another gal born in your neck of the woods.

Soft hugs, Jessica

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Jayne01

I am very happy for you Kendra. Thank you for the update. I'm glad your pain is subsiding and it's good to see your sense of humour is still intact. Now get some rest and recover.

Jayne
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Sharon Anne McC

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Kendra:

Congratulations!

Well done!

Your goody bag awaits in a week or so.  Your diligence to your 'duty' will reward you well.

Commit your experiences to memory - never let them fade.

I enjoyed reading your thread.  It is a pleasure to read how the process is far superior to the 'old days'.

For  you who are waiting, your time will arrive soon enough.  Cherish your journey as much as your destination.

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1956:  Birth (AMAB)
1974-1985:  Transition (core transition:  1977-1985)
1977:  Enrolled in Stanford University Medical Center's 'Gender Dysphoria Program'
1978:  First transition medical appointment
1978:  Corresponded with Janus Information Facility (Galveston)
1978:  Changed my SSA file to Sharon / female
1979:  First psychological evaluation - passed
1979:  Began ERT (Norinyl, DES, Premarin, estradiol, progesterone)
1980:  Arizona affirmed me legally as Sharon / female
1980:  MVD changed my licence to Sharon / female
1980:  First bank account as Sharon / female
1982:  Inter-sex exploratory:  diagnosed Inter-sex (genetically female)
1983:  Inter-sex corrective surgery
1984:  Full-blown 'male fail' phase
1985:  Transition complete to female full-time forever
2015:  Awakening from self-imposed deep stealth and isolation
2015 - 2016:  Chettawut Clinic - patient companion and revision
Today:  Happy!
Future:  I wanna return to Bangkok with other Thai experience friends

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Mariah

Kendra, It was amazing being able to visit you yesterday and see that your doing so very well. The first day being a blur is totally normal. Everyone who was there with me remembers more than I do about my first day and I'm sure that is true for you. How tired we are and how quickly really does surprise you, however it gets a lot better over time. From each day on this week you will gradually have things to look forward to as you heal. Congrats. Hugs
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Kendra

As I start day two I realize - while this definitely isn't a walk in the park and I remain on bed rest until later today, I am no longer on any pain medications.  I feel a bit banged up but not that bad, although earlier (12 hours after surgery) the pain did get my attention.  Not even aspirin now, and I can carefully move my legs without too much pain in the surgical areas.  5-1/2 hours of surgery ended 40 hours ago.

And although this is major surgery and requires careful consideration of risks, in a way it's trivial.  The inconvenience of not being able to get out of bed or reach completely across the table is nothing compared to what many face on a long term or permanent basis with various disabilities.  I made the decision to become disabled for a few days and hours and deal with recovery - for reasons that are so worth it, like electrolysis and other things I would do again without hesitation.  My admiration for people who face challenges far greater than mine is less abstract now. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Sarah_P

OMG!!! I feel awful for completely missing this until now!!
Congratulations Kendra!!!! I'm beyond happy for you! (and jealous!!)

Wait, Scottsdale AZ?! I think my sister lives there!
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
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Kendra

Yes Scottsdale - I think of as MeltzerVille  ;) 
I just saw Dr. Ley, and might briefly see Dr. Meltzer tomorrow.

I spoke too soon about being able to avoid pain meds.  10 hours after the last pill a bit much pain started creeping back so I requested another.  Really glad I did that, as a nurse showed helped me take my first steps out of bed and across the room.

I know this is a major procedure and people said my first time walking would be difficult, but I didn't comprehend just how difficult and painful those first steps are - a completely different type of pain from the main surgical area.  The nurse said I should walk today but stay in the room.  I told her no worries, I'm not gonna go running for awhile.  I'm glad I have decent upper body strength to carefully maneuver into an armchair without plopping down.  The pleasant surprise is, sitting doesn't hurt much although I was told it would. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Kendra

Beth, Kendra, Saha:


Beth & Saha have returned to Seattle.  I'm here until Jan 27.

Here's my schedule:

Day -1: Pre-surgery meeting with assistants and with Dr. Ley.  Quick exam, mainly a very detailed explanation of what would follow during the next ten days. 

Day 0: Day of surgery.  Strict bed rest, compression socks on legs hooked to a strange machine that squeezed each leg with air pressure a few times per minute to help avoid blood clots.  Drain tubes connected to surgery area to handle standard blood discharge.  Catheter connecter to bladder bag, intravenous tube, couple electrodes, and a trendy pink LED on one fingertip.  Intravenous saline solution also used for liquid medicines.  Compression garment (medical corset) around the sculpting (lipo) I added to the procedure. Liquid foods only - broth, apple juice.  Bag of ice applied to GCS area at all times.

Day 1: Strict bed rest.  Intravenous disconnected, switch to pills (5 on the first morning).  Switch to solid foods. 

Day 2: Compression stockings removed (the strange air-driven pulsing sensation every few seconds on each leg).  Assisted out of bed for first walk across room.  Yay!  Ouch.  But still smiling.  Encouraged to walk around room to get those parts working again but don't leave room.  Bladder bag removed, catheter tube has a plug - shown how to use this in the bathroom.  Can carefully take a shower.  5 pills plus a shot in the arm - blood thinner as a precaution against clotting.

Day 3: Drain tubes removed from surgical area (these have medium-size bulbs to collect blood - normal recovery).  Can leave hospital for brief walks or short trips.  5 pill and a shot of blood thinner.  Can resume hormone therapy, yay! 

Day 4-5: Increase walking around.  Last day receiving a shot of blood thinner.

Day 6: Labial stitches and packing removed.  Taught how to dilate.

Day 7: Dilate 4 times per day.

Day 9: Catheter removal. 

Day 9: Leave hospital.

After 10 days at the hospital, the following 30 days are recovery.  Don't lift anything heavier than 12 pounds (5.5kg), walking is good, dilate 4 times per day for the first month after leaving. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Jessica_Rose

I just found this thread too! Congratulations Kendra, your smile says it all! I wish you a speedy and uneventful recovery. Hopefully sometime next year I will also cross to the other side.
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
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GCS II - GCS II and FFS w/Dr. Ley
FFS II - Jaw and chin surgery w/Dr. Ley
Hair - Hair Restoration
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Laurie

Hey Girl,

  I know about most of the paraphernalia. Not the corset, blood catch tubing or packing stuff of course but I think all the rest . Let me tell ya you haven't lived until you've tried to use an adult sized potty chair beside the bed with all those tubes, hoses and electrodes still attached including the catheter because they won't let you walk anywhere. Or how about after the catheter is removed you have to call for a spotter before being allowed to stand by the bed to pee in a bottle because all fluids going in and out have to be measured. And oh oh having to be on 6/ Lpm of oxygen and they are complaining your oxygen level need to be higher. And then the special joy of being puffed up like a balloon from the edema cause by the regular poisonings they been giving you for weeks.  LOL yep you just haven't lived yet girl. Heck what's a little packing and drain tubes? Quit your complaining girl. Like I did, you asked for this. Congrats again Kendra. Heal quickly but don't push it.

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Jayne01

Did you have an additional procedure to surgically attach a smile to your face? You haven't stopped smiling, that is fantastic! I can't help but smile with you.

I'm glad to hear the recovery is going smoothly so far. Thank you for sharing your happiness with us.

Oh, and that pink finger light thingy is cool. Do you get to keep it? That is a new trend, it's all the rage these days!

Jayne
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