This week, instead of Beauty and Treatments, I will cover some aspects of Thailand and Thai TGs for visiting TGs
Many visiting TGs should understand and not be upset when the Thais misgender you. Their english is based on how they say things in Thai. In the Thai language the is NO Mr or Mrs we are all Khun. There is NO he or she only Kao. Many think that its the same in English. So, its easier to remember Sir when addressing everyone. Madam is long and more difficult. So please dont get upset.
In Thailand the laws protecting LGBT rights are weak and difficult to enforce. But Bangkok has 13 plus million Facebook users and social media is very effective in Thailand for instilling police action and bring to the public attention other prejucided activities. Our TG comunity uses this media to exposed many issues.
Many have asked about IDs. In Thailand you cannot change your IDs at present. Thus even if you look 100pct like a female and had srs, your id still says male. This is one of our issues we hope to change and is looking positive.
Because of no id change we are id'd as the 3rd gender. A description that we feel describes us best and unifies us in seeking ID change and laws to allow marriage and equality at the workplace. Our closest friends tend to be other TGs, guess its the buddy support system and hrt help that is passed amongst peer groups. We have a long history of experience that is passed along.
The government school are sadly very strict in enforcing a male/female dress code and hair according to your legal gender, we are trying to politely request their consideration. Government Universities have change and allow your choice after many years of persuasive discussions. We have found that a bon agressive and more submissive approach achieves our goals. Remember we have the support of the Thai population. Of course Private schools allow your choice.
Also, many choose to work the night life to cater to the tourists. We are the most visited city in the world. Buddhism, the nations religion, does not discriminate in what you work at or look down at you. Like other cis the nightlife provide good income. Dont look down upon those that do this by choice and believe me, they have fun. We in Thailand dont look down on each others choice of work, if it does not hurt others. I also know many Thai TGs who are in film and TV, other working in senior positions in corporates, salesladies and beauty consultants. This still needs improvements and laws may be needed.
Next week I will look at beauty treatments.
