I have an unusual view of being tg. I have never felt miserable as a male, very successful investment banker, healthy, world class sportsman and very sociable, married 4 times and have 4 children from 5 years old to 34 years old. Transitioned late in life because it was the right time, fufilling all my family obligations. Came out publucally with full page newspaper articles and a documentary by Vice Media. Only one friend had issues all others were amazingly supportive.
So now 2 years after srs and living as a female. Well I found I am equally happy, successful as a financial advisor, top sports woman, healthy, positive and love my life. Being TG for me has been the greatest gift. A chance to live 2 lives in a lifetime and loving both lives.
So lets go through some intersting physical changes. HRT is a fountain of youth, I look like I'm in my 40s and living in Bangkok where beauty clinics are abundant and so much cheaper than other major cities. Hope to keep looking young haha.
Skin needs alot more moisturuzer, T keeps male skin much oilier than females, and also I bruise much more easily and have to be more aware of bumping into objects. My body hair has disappeared and skin feels amazing softer. Facial hair is non existant. Head hair has filled in all the male patern balding areas.
Had voice lessons, walking and behavioral pattern of females. It the end it all just came naturally. I am myself with the confidence that I always had.
Full acceptance, no one cares here in Bangkok gender fluid community. So I dont know or care about passing. Men and women hit on me in clubs.
Sex, thank you Dr Sutin and PAI clinic. My orgasms are both clitoral and vaginal. Incredible orgasms but not like a male. It takes time to get aroused and its just so different.
Being TG is an amazing gift and I can only hope that others will one day see it as a blessing and not a misery.
Have a wonderful Christmas.
