A joke from my childhood. A womanizer meets a skinny girl.
- hey missy, do you have any butt?
- well yes, of course, how rude!
- then why don't you wear it?
That was a hint - When was the last time you see a black girl without a great butt? If you don't want to wear pads - then you need to wear a skirt with some flair, creating an image you have one.