One of many "lasts" no doubt. 😊 Or firsts if you look at it from the other side.
I don't know what that would be like. No family really, no children. I was going through photos a week ago and found pictures of my last family Christmas in 1983, not something I want to remember. 15 years ago or more my best friend and I were roommates, we had an awesome Christmas then but we spent the day together yesterday and it felt the same. She's the best.
If you feel that you will be losing something, then enjoy this last one as much as possible maybe. I've never missed being male but I don't think that I have ever felt male to begin with.
It doesn't end you know? I won't say that it doesn't change but everything is still there. Being a woman is in no way less than being a man, just different. I can't even imagine what it is like to be a father though, that will probably be different than anything that I have ever experienced. After this surge of terrible anxiety in the beginning of transition, more than likely things will settle down to something like normal. Just breathe, things may seem impossible right now but you can do it and there IS an after, and for most of us it is sooooooo worth it in the end. Just breathe, step, breathe, step, breathe, step and before you know it it will be tomorrow.