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started my workplace outing plan

Started by Bari Jo, January 10, 2018, 12:04:48 PM

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Bari Jo

I started a plan to out myself at my workplace today.  I commonly cook things for my coworkers so this email is nothing new.  however using my name on it is.  I'll be doing this once a month for them to get used to it.  I have a badge that has my name too, so say in six months, it'll be easier for them to take I think and be supportive.



Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Julia1996

Quote from: Bari Jo on January 10, 2018, 12:04:48 PM
I started a plan to out myself at my workplace today.  I commonly cook things for my coworkers so this email is nothing new.  however using my name on it is.  I'll be doing this once a month for them to get used to it.  I have a badge that has my name too, so say in six months, it'll be easier for them to take I think and be supportive.



Bari Jo

Good luck sweetie. I hope it goes well but I think it will.  I doubt anyone will be surprised. After getting to know you by your writing style, attitudes and personality in general, you are a very feminine person. I'm sure that shows through in your daily life as well. After all, no guy would ever bake stuff for the people at work. Lol. That's very nice of you btw.
Julia


Born 1998
Started hrt 2015
SRS done 5/21/2018
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Gertrude

Korean pork jerky


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Shambles

Good luck, maybe you could suggest some "sweet breasted chicken" or a diet verson of meatballs called "no balls pasta" just incase the name change is too suttle for some  ;D
- Jo / Joanna

Pre-HRT Trans-Fem
16th Nov 17 - Came out to myself
7th Jan 18 - Came out to wife
31st Jan 18 - Referred to GIC / might be seen in 2020
Oct 18 - Fully out at one job, part out at another
Nov 18 - Out to close family
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Bari Jo

This is what six pounds of spicy Korean BBQ pork jerky looks like.  It came out perfect from Chez Bari Jo.

Bari Jo

you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Laurie

I want some Bari Jo. Good luck with your plan. It might work for the women but the men? Well they are men aren't they?

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Bari Jo

Quote from: Laurie on January 14, 2018, 11:07:51 PM
I want some Bari Jo. Good luck with your plan. It might work for the women but the men? Well they are men aren't they?

Hugs,
   Laurie

Laurie, I will cook for you special, all you have to do is visit:)

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Laurie

  I can see I am going to have to request at least a driveway to park my overnight bag in on some of these visits to cut costs if I ever do another road trip.
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Bari Jo

Quote from: Laurie on January 14, 2018, 11:22:05 PM
  I can see I am going to have to request at least a driveway to park my overnight bag in on some of these visits to cut costs if I ever do another road trip.

No prob, there is guest parking here too.  I so want to do a roadtrip too.  My dog Fanta loves road trips.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Bari Jo

The jerky was a huge hit.  It went faster than anything else I've brought in.  They like Chez Bari Jo and think I'm a BBQ genius:)

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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