Took the first step!

[Feeltrapped]

Well, after battling my inner self/feelings for 34 years I've finally taken the first step at finally being able to be me! Contacted a gender therapist and will be going to see her in the next week or so. Nervous, excited, anxious, relieved, and a bit terrified at the same time. But over all, just happy I finally had the guts to do something at least!!!

[Bari Jo]

Congrats.  I'm so happy therapists are out there.  I wish it was common so we didn't have to beat ourselves up before finally reaching out.  Hugs to you.  Let us know how the session goes.

Bari Jo

[Colleen_definitely]

Walking into that room and saying "so doc, am I nuts?" was probably the best thing I ever did.  Glad you're finally making that step.

[elkie-t]

Well, after battling my inner self/feelings for 34 years I've finally taken the first step at finally being able to be me! Contacted a gender therapist and will be going to see her in the next week or so. Nervous, excited, anxious, relieved, and a bit terrified at the same time. But over all, just happy I finally had the guts to do something at least!!!

This is just the first one... there will be thousand more needed with pain, pressures and fears along the way. Don't stop if you're determined to reach that goal

[KathyLauren]

Congratulations on taking your first step.  It's a long one, but you did it!  All those feelings are normal, but go with the happy.  That's what this journey is all about.

[DawnOday]

Good for you. Flirting with telling my story to a therapist for forty years, I finally could not hide any more. I am now the most stress free human on earth. Ok there is Trump. But honestly, just having my thoughts and mind under control and focused is a real game changer. Finally after all these years I look forward to what discovery I make tomorrow. Hoping you have a good time discovering your own self. There will be stumbling blocks, but push through and persevere. Be totally honest with the therapist and spill your guts. It will be like the most important discussion you may ever have.

[VickyS]

The first step feels wonderful doesn't it?  And very well done for having the guts to do it.  I only yesterday told my doctor (GP) how I feel and will be getting referred to a therapist that specialises in this area.  As has been said, it's probably the most important conversation we can have and I wish you all the luck in the world with it.  Be yourself and just tell them the truth and I'll try to do the same.

Good luck,

Vicky x