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What type of transgendered person are you?

Started by Lexi Nexi, January 09, 2018, 11:51:39 PM

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Lexi Nexi

Some one posted this awesome paper on another thread and I started reading it and found it sticky worthy let alone thread worthy. Thanks to the OP I found alot about my self.

As far as the paper goes I suspect alot of the people here fall into Group 3; I certainly do. I'm curious to see if you girls feel the same. I suspect the people who fit into category one probably are sexually attracted to men while group 3 is probably more bi/lesbian/nonsexual.

I always assumed I wasn't trans because I didn't fit into catagory one. If I had read this paper as a kid I would have transitioned when I was 18. Instead I thought I would grow out of it.

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Roll

Not to immediately launch into a negative post, but I have always been a bit put off by the categorizing in that paper every time I see it come up. Group 3 is such a massive catch all (and definitely applies to the overwhelming majority of MTFs on this site and elsewhere), and it seems to dismiss or gloss over a large portion of FTMs outright. It's not so much that the paper is wrong, just has a bit of a reductionist feeling to it.

For my part, I don't really feel like I fit in any group. I'm closest to 3, but my reaction of drawing away from society entirely doesn't really line up with the generic description of over compensating as male (and I would outright shun a lot of the typical male activities). I'm not sure when the paper was written, so this might be more of a generational issue? Anecdotally it seems like everyone born before the 80s tends to line up with the description of group 3 a bit better, before it was more socially acceptable for men to not care about sports or act macho and what not. (In other words, it was a bit easier to hide behind the more gender neutral, or at least not overtly masculine, nerd label in the 90s and 00s without bucking cultural norms for men.)

(And I know that it says that those groups aren't the only ones, but I would wager the more nuanced versions of group 3 are more common than group 1, which seems exceedingly rare, so it is strange not to discuss them more directly.)
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judithlynn

Interesting review. I am a 100% G3 person.
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krobinson103

Probably G1 if I was single. Bit closer to G3 at the moment due to family situation.
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sashapawz

Group 3, but probably group 1 if my dad wasn't such a "man's man" and tried to make me not be girly. But he's accepting now :D


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rmaddy

Quote from: Roll on January 10, 2018, 12:09:18 AM

It's not so much that the paper is wrong, just has a bit of a reductionist feeling to it.


There are two types of people in the world...those who divide people into two types, and those who don't.
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Quote from: rmaddy on January 10, 2018, 01:46:46 AM
There are two types of people in the world...those who divide people into two types, and those who don't.
There are 2 types of people in the world. Those who need closure


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 And there is one type of copyright.

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