Hey,
So I'll start off by saying I live in the UK and back in high school I was in a long distance relationship with a lass who lives in San Antonio, Texas. We were together nearly 11 months but during my GCSEs she split up with me due to distance. We broke up on fairly good terms though and have remained very close friends since the break up. She was also the first person who dated me as Lily. Well I hadn't transitioned at the time but I had come out and she loved me for me.
Anyway, I'm 25 now and last week we were talking and she seemed a little down and I asked her what was up. She said she was an idiot for breaking up with me and everything has gone downhill since then. I misinterpreted this as her wanting to get back together but turns out that wasn't what she meant. However we did start discussing our relationship and what it would take for us to get back together. She's really close to her family and doesn't feel like she could leave Texas, so one of the conditions is that eventually I'd have to move there if we were to get back together (not necessarily first, but I have to be willing to move there).
I'll have to say Texas isn't my first choice for a home but it has been something I have been open to the idea of if it gets me back with my ex. Kinda a high school sweetheart situation I guess.
So if this were to happen, it would be quite a way into the future but I still like to do my research, especially for a place such as Texas where I imagine trans healthcare isn't as easily accessible.
Good news is, aside from wanting facial feminisation surgery, I am at the end of my medical transition. Birth certificate says female and my new name, had my surgery, been discharged from my gender identity clinic. If I were to move to Texas I'd pretty much just need to find an endocrinologist in the region for prescribing me my hormones. Which one of my questions is do any of you know of any endocrinologists in the San Antonio area who are trans friendly?
Also, I've never really had experience with moving countries, so if I were to move does anyone know what I'd need and how easy it would be to get all my medications from a new doctor in the States?
I mean really my large concerns here are the medical side. I know with a place like Texas I am in for a world of crap. I mean presently my profession has me working within high schools, something I know will be a pain in the neck to find a job in, in a place like Texas. That however is a bridge I am willing to cross when I get to it. The thing I am certain of though, is without my hormones facing those problems will be near impossible for me due to the impact it will have on my mental health.
Also this may never happen, but I'd like to do my research in advance so if the opportunity arises for me and my ex getting back together, I can say I am all in with no reservations.