« on: August 16, 2021, 08:22:50 am »
On August 2nd I drove to San Antonio for my aunt's funeral, she was my mom's older sister. I talked to a few relatives, and some distant relatives remembered me from my mom's funeral early last year. My dad traveled to the funeral with my brother, but dad didn't want to hang around for the reception and he asked me to drive him home (a 7hr drive). I had been hoping to attend the reception after the funeral, but after talking to relatives for about 20 minutes, we were on the road to my dad's house. We got in around 8:30pm and I spent the night there. The next morning, I hit the road early and got home around 10:00am.
The following weekend I was on the road again, this time to Colorado Springs so I could clean out my old desk. I left home on August 7th and spent the night in Elk City, OK. I arrived in Colorado Springs the next day and met some friends for a late lunch. My friends were parents and coaches involved with a softball team I had taken photos of for the last seven seasons. We stayed in the restaurant nearly three hours talking primarily about softball! I really do miss taking photos at their games...
I was the first person in the office Monday. My desk was exactly as I had left it, including a note I had written on my whiteboard before we were all sent home -- 'I shall return'. I saw five other people that day, but the numbers dwindled as the days passed. On Friday I only saw one other person on my floor. There are normally hundreds of people in the building. While in town I visited Kris (my electrologist) three times. I hadn't seen her in five weeks! After about eight hours of electrolysis and conversation through the week we were all caught up. Finding a good electrologist can be difficult, but I can't visit Kris every week anymore. She volunteered to open her shop on a Saturday for me, so I have planned a quick trip back in late September.
One of the softball moms invited me and a few other friends to dinner Wednesday evening, she even made some fresh chocolate chip cookies! It's always nice spending time with good friends.
Thursday afternoon I visited one of our old neighbors. She had been taking care of some plants for us, along with a few boxes of things the movers wouldn't take. After loading everything up, we talked for an hour or so and shared a fresh peach pie she had baked. We had been neighbors for 15 years, and that was by far the longest conversation we ever had.
On Friday I packed up all the personal items in my desk and started the drive home. It was a bit emotional for me, leaving my office for possibly the last time. After driving through some torrential rain, I spent the night in Elk City once again. I made it home Saturday afternoon, just in time to mow the yard!
Susan and I are still going through boxes and trying to get our home set up. Right now, we are just trying to empty all the boxes and find a furniture configuration that works, eventually we will find the time to rearrange things more appropriately. The day I left for Colorado Springs our wedding photos arrived. Susan and I plan to look through them later this week, and maybe even post a few here...
Love always -- Jessica Rose