I only get money from immediate family, and from my SO I generally just get whatever I might have suggested, which won't be gendered stuff probably.
His family who we haven't seen since forever still send me super girly stuff though. It's hilarious. I don't take it badly because they don't even know, so it's just like I appreciate their thought and effort. If they send me a bunch of girly bath soaps, hell, I'll use them... it's free soap. This year they sent me a bunch of black chenille socks with red hearts on and they're pretty toasty so I'm wearing 'em, lol