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Something is up with my step brother

Started by Miss Zoey, January 21, 2018, 10:06:20 PM

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Miss Zoey

Something is up with my step brother Austin and I see it in his face.We talk and get along,he is ok about me being a fulltime crossdresser and does call me Zoey.I get a phone call from him tonight and said he wants to talk about something sometime,wants to make things right.I told him we can meet up at my place and talk about it tomorrow afternoon.Was surprised he said yes to this,he is one year younger than me.Called my mom and she said that is good telling me this.Said good luck on this and said thanks.
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Laurie

It beats me Zoey. I guess you will just have to meet with him and see what is going on. It doesn't sound bad though.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Miss Zoey

Said he was thinking about accepting that I am happy as a fulltime crossdresser finally.He does now and I was glad he said it
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HappyMoni

That's fantastic. He really put effort into it too. Sometimes it takes people a while.
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Miss Zoey

Quote from: HappyMoni on January 22, 2018, 09:16:23 PM
That's fantastic. He really put effort into it too. Sometimes it takes people a while.
He did and things look a whole lot better now.He said 20 years of not accepting it was way too long and it had to end
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HappyMoni

20 years is a lot of sad wasted time, but at least it ended well. Some people think if they put up enough fuss that it will change our reality. Newsflash, they have no control to make us different. Happy for you Zoey.
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Miss Zoey

I am happy now it's over,Austin and I can look towards the future putting the past behind us.
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KathyLauren

I guess that, just like some of us take longer to come out or to transition, others take longer to accept.  It's all right if it ends well.  It sounds like this one has a happy ending! :)
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Laurie

Hey Zoey

  I want to get on that happy train with the others, Congrats on your brother making an effort to tell you he is sorry for not accepting you before and wanting to settle it with you. It likely was not an easy thing for him to do.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Miss Zoey

My step brother said it was not easy and had guilty feelings not accepting it at all.
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Miss Zoey

Here is an update,Austin is been great and I am amazed by the positive changes he has made.He is learning very well and told him how it all started how it all started.Austin is learning everyone is different in a good way,he knows I always felt as a feminine male all my life loving to wear feminine clothing now.He is also getting to know me more,one is I am like any genetic woman.He seen my shoe collection,said I am a shoeaholic and told him this is true.
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HappyMoni

Zoey,
   There is something special about someone coming around to be supportive after not being that way earlier. I am happy it is going well. I am experiencing a little of the opposite right now. A friend who seemed supportive has now drifted away. I guess my change was too much for him. Sad!
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Miss Zoey

Quote from: HappyMoni on January 30, 2018, 06:02:36 PM
Zoey,
   There is something special about someone coming around to be supportive after not being that way earlier. I am happy it is going well. I am experiencing a little of the opposite right now. A friend who seemed supportive has now drifted away. I guess my change was too much for him. Sad!
Moni
Austin has learned very well this is me,I have always been happy dressed as Zoey.My mom and step dad are also glad he is supportive now including my step sister.
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