Hey all, wondering if anyone has a similar experience? I've been on T for 5.5 weeks and I feel so much more stable and happier. I've started noticing changes, people have commented that my face shape is starting to change and I'm noticing some facial hair and voice deepening.
I'm just having a really tough time in figuring out how I feel. I have always hated being a girl. I have resented it to no end and always identified more as a male. If I had a choice, I would have been born a boy, hands down. Despite this, male pronouns scare me. Since I still look very feminine, it makes me uncomfortable to ask people to use male pronouns and to explain/feel like they're judging me because obviously they know I'm transitioning. If I looked more masculine/passed easier, I would love using male pronouns, but right now, looking female, I don't feel like I can use male pronouns.
I have anxiety and ocd and I think my fears of being rejected by those closest to me (my parents have said I am no longer welcome to be in the family if I pursue transition) are what's really getting to me. I do not want to stop T, I am so looking forward to top surgery and days where I no longer have to wear a bra/shirt, but I'm just having such doubts about this process and if my feelings are right/enough to transition. These doubts are telling me I'm not really trans, that I'll regret this, that this is a mistake.
Have any of you felt similarly? What helps you cope? Is it just getting over the hump of the early stages of transition and then anxiety settles down?