You know, my niece is getting ready to graduate from UCSC, and from what I hear the dorms there have co-ed bathrooms, which include showers. Now that my niece is graduating (she is 22), I trust her judgment, but she hasn't lived in the dorms since she was a freshmen; however, is that appropriate for a 18 or 19 year old? When I was that age, I can guarantee the things I did were not appropriate (Holy cow, I must be getting old, when did I become a hypocrite?

). Hyprocrite or not, I don't think it is appropriate.
Patricia