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Re: What made you happy today? For mtF members only, please. 3.0

Started by Denise, September 18, 2017, 09:25:20 PM

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Artesia

I smell like burnt hair.  AKA lost some beard to a laser weapon today.

The second interview seems to have gone well.  The interviewer seemed to like me, and my answers.  They have some trans children at the facility, so I may be exactly what they are looking for.

The bus ride to and from Chicago was interesting.  Had a gentleman talk, and flirt, with me a bit.  He had some derogatory things to say about transgender people.  After a bit of me defending being trans, it dawned on him that I was trans.  We had a real long conversation afterwards.  He may now be, at least, indeferent rather than anti trans. He did stop flirting though.
All the worlds a joke, and the people, merely punchlines

September 13, 2016 HRT start date
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tgirlamg

Had to go to the hardware store today and ran into an old surfing buddy from the days of male life gone by who was working there... Hadn't seen him for 4+ years... I needed help because what I needed was locked in a case....  He came over and asked "what can I help you with honey?" ... I giggled and said " you don't remember me do ya?" ... Once I told him who I was he gave me a hug ... Told me I looked great and happy...we caught up and resolved to get back out and do some surfing soon.... Coincidently... Last week, my doctor said I was all cleared to start surfing again because my post FFS frontal sinus complication seems to be well resolved ( after 4 procedures!!!! )

Onward we surf!!!!

Ashley 😀❤️🌻
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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Kendra

Awesome 3x!

And Tia Anne, here's another hug - congratulations! 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Meghan

Tonight I found out my insurance approval for me to see Endocrine my Therapist and Doctor prefers. I also have my ears pierced.

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Meghan Pham: MtF Transgender, Transsexual, Transwoman, social justice, Caregivers, Certified Nurse Assistant
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steph2.0

Quote from: Anne Blake on December 11, 2017, 06:53:15 PM
I got my new drivers license with my name on it today. The woman behind the counter is a friend and mentor, after I received the license she came around the counter for an extended hug; we both left crying....the great kind of tears.

Wow. So many feels today! Happiness around every corner. Congratulations Tia Anne!!

Steph


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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natalie.ashlyne

I came out to my cousin who has not seen me in 4 years and she did not recognize me, things so far did go well
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Laurie

Congratulations 4 times. Tia, Artesia, Ashley and Meghan you all get (((HUGS)))

Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Laurie

April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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KarynMcD

Quote from: Anne Blake on December 11, 2017, 06:53:15 PM
she came around the counter for an extended hug; we both left crying....the great kind of tears.

That's awesome!
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p

Look at all of the wonderful news--I am so happy for everyone! Claire, congrats on laser and your 2nd round interview--a double dose of good news! Tia, what a wonderful experience to have a friend behind the desk at DMV to celebrate with you! Ashley,  congrats on the all clear to surf--cowabunga! Meghan, awesome news on your endo and your ear piercing--aren't they fun?! Natalie, congrats on coming out to your cousin!

I am running out of exclamation points here, ladies! Hugs  :-*
Patti

Something is off - 2016-17
Out to husband - 2/14/17
Full-time - 3/9/17
HRT - 6/14/17
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Phoenix1742

Quote from: Laurie on December 11, 2017, 12:46:28 PM
Phoenix,

  I wouldn't let the "ma'am" bother me at all as I view it as respectful politeness. I'll take all of them that I can get. I do know there are those like you who take it as a  response for older women but I chose to look at it as just being polite. I sure would let it ruin my enjoyment of being gendered correctly. I hope you won't either.

Hugs,
   Laurie
It's more faux offense - we're southern enough that ma'am as politeness is a thing.

Now having someone ask if you were interested in some color while you're getting your haircut - that's an entirely different story! [emoji4]

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natalie.ashlyne

I want to say thank yoh to all of you  for all of your words of encouragement  it has helped me so much over the past year that i have been able to be happy  and my true self you are all amazing. I never meet anyone here and you all are very helpful and wonderful people
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steph2.0

Natalie's post reminded me that I've been wanting to write this somewhere. I guess this is as good a place as any.

What makes me happy every day is just what Natalie mentioned. The helpful, caring interactions we have here on Susan's are unprecedented on the Internet as far as I can tell. I can't overstate the value of all the people here who support each other. It's an incredible testament to Susan and all the wonderful moderators, that we have such a safe space to be ourselves in.

When I told my therapist that I had started getting active in an online support forum, she sternly warned me to be very careful because of all the toxic people out there. She really needs to spend some time here so she can understand.

So thank you Susan, and mods, and all you good people.

Steph


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Laurie

Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 12, 2017, 01:46:49 PM
When I told my therapist that I had started getting active in an online support forum, she sternly warned me to be very careful because of all the toxic people out there. She really needs to spend some time here so she can understand.

So thank you Susan, and mods, and all you good people.

Steph

  It sounds to me that you need to be doing more educating of your therapist. Mine at least had heard of it and has mentioned several times that I am an active participate in an online forum and that I get good support online. My speech was aware of Susan's Place. I talk to my electrocutioner about Susan's during facial torture sessions And have mentioned it to my GP and my Oncologist.
  See? I have a big mouth everywhere and sing the praises of Susan's Place and how everyone here helps me with my problems.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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Bari Jo

Quote from: Laurie on December 12, 2017, 03:42:17 PM
I talk to my electrocutioner

This made me happy.

Seriously though Susan's is worth every penny of my monthly subscription.  My doctor and family refer to it now.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Lucy Ross

QuoteI talk to my electrocutioner about Susan's during facial torture sessions.

Laurie and I go to the same sadistic monster for beard clearance.  She's never at a loss for words, thankfully; between the agony and my mild stammer making my jaw occasionally convulse I'm more than content to let her talk about remodeling her bathroom. Sometimes I mention stuff I've learned from "the website."

Have had various happy moments in the last few months on HRT, upper lip clear yay!  but for about 5 days straight I've been feeling nigh unto exuberant, along with things having noticeably shrunk down below and grown up top, and that rasically ol' libido suddenly vanishing in a puff of smoke.  This must be a hormonal tipping point, in a big way, just an awesome feeling all around.  I feel like going out and just talking with whoever too, which is unusual for a hermetic type such as myself. I'm not down in the dumps and have friends, but mostly keep my own company, and have never minded it that way; but suddenly have this urge to get out of the house ASAP, which is completely out of the blue.

I feel like  posting about my every last thought on Susan's, too, apologies in advance!   ;D  Just figured out how to type on this stupid phone, too...
1982-1985 Teenage Crossdresser!
2015-2017 Middle Aged Crossdresser!  Or...?
April 2017 Electrolysis Time  :icon_yikes:
July 12th, 2017 Started HRT  :icon_chick:
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steph2.0

Quote from: Lucy Ross on December 13, 2017, 06:44:54 AMThis must be a hormonal tipping point, in a big way, just an awesome feeling all around.

Me too, Lucy! I've been riding the crest of a tall wave ever since I got my finalized name change court order on Monday. And there've been so many happy posts on this thread lately, I'm beginning to wonder if there's something in the air.

QuoteI feel like  posting about my every last thought on Susan's, too, apologies in advance!   ;D

Oh my gosh, don't apologize! Start up your own thread and cut loose. I'll buy a ticket for the front row!

Steph


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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davina61

a long time coming (out) HRT 12 2017
GRS 2021 5th Nov

Jill of all trades mistress of non
Know a bit about everything but not enough to be clever
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KarynMcD

I had my first, "how you doin'?" from a random guy on the street.

Yes, I was in NY city at the time. Why do you ask?


(One of these days I'm going to truly believe that I pass just fine.)
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steph2.0

Quote from: KarynMcD on December 13, 2017, 03:31:03 PM
One of these days I'm going to truly believe that I pass just fine.

I just looked at your avatar.

To quote Maxwell Smart (who you may be too young to remember):

"Well, believe it!"


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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