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Re: What made you happy today? For mtF members only, please. 3.0

Started by Denise, September 18, 2017, 09:25:20 PM

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Faith

I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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Bari Jo

Tonight I had dinner with my dad for the first time since company left.  We talked about me, my history.  We talked about my doctor and her next step (increase in e in Jan).  He wants to follow along with me by watching my labs. I showed him my avatar pict and my pict from Japan.  He said the avatar looks like me.  I would not say he's supportive, but it's accepting.  Still though I cried a little after dropping him off.  Even this level of support touched me deeply

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Roll

Quote from: Bari Jo on December 14, 2017, 12:02:15 AM
Tonight I had dinner with my dad for the first time since company left.  We talked about me, my history.  We talked about my doctor and her next step (increase in e in Jan).  He wants to follow along with me by watching my labs. I showed him my avatar pict and my pict from Japan.  He said the avatar looks like me.  I would not say he's supportive, but it's accepting.  Still though I cried a little after dropping him off.  Even this level of support touched me deeply

Bari Jo

From what you said I think the more he starts to see this is what will be good for you as his child he will move more and more towards supportive. He obviously genuinely loves you (it's sad I feel like that doesn't go without saying for some fathers), and I think that love can win him over.
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10/20/17 - First coming out (to my father)!
12/16/17 - BEGAN HRT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5/21/18 - FIRST DAY OUT AS ME!!!!!!!!!
6/08/18 - 2,250 Hair Grafts
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8/06/18 - 100%, completely out!
9/08/18 - I'M IN LOVE!!!!
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Megan.



Quote from: Bari Jo on December 14, 2017, 12:02:15 AM
Tonight I had dinner with my dad for the first time since company left.  We talked about me, my history.  We talked about my doctor and her next step (increase in e in Jan).  He wants to follow along with me by watching my labs. I showed him my avatar pict and my pict from Japan.  He said the avatar looks like me.  I would not say he's supportive, but it's accepting.  Still though I cried a little after dropping him off.  Even this level of support touched me deeply

Bari Jo

This sounds good to me. I'd feel very wary about anyone actively encouraging me,  so may be he's just taking a measured approach. Very happy for you. X

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KarynMcD

Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 13, 2017, 05:59:02 PM
I just looked at your avatar.

To quote Maxwell Smart (who you may be too young to remember):

"Well, believe it!"

"And, loving it."

(I turned 50 back in October.)
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steph2.0



Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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tgirlamg

Good memories!!!... I always enjoyed "the cone of silence" and the bit with the CHAOS villain " .... "the claw!!!!" 

Hugs!!!

Ashley 😀💗🌻
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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Sarah_P

Quote from: tgirlamc on December 14, 2017, 10:25:14 AM
Good memories!!!... I always enjoyed "the cone of silence" and the bit with the CHAOS villain " .... "the claw!!!!" 

Hugs!!!

Ashley 😀💗🌻

'Not the Craw, The Craw!'
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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Tessa James

I wanted to be "99" as she was always getting Max out of jams ;D ;D ;D
Open, out and evolving queer trans person forever with HRT support since March 13, 2013
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KathyLauren

2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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tgirlamg

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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Faith

Today my wife and I went to my Dr's appointment (different story)

As we sat in the waiting room my mind wandered too much. My wife looked at me and told me to let it out, so I did. I've made a point of telling how I feel and what I want to do. I've stated many times about my feminine feelings and desires, I always stopped short of actually saying that I wanted to be a woman. This time I said it right out, right down to wanting girl bits (even though that is an unreachable goal at this time).

My wife, who stated first thing that she 'didn't marry a woman', looked me straight in the eyes and said:
"Do you want me to start calling you Faith? I will if you want me to, I don't mind"

I love my wife.

I did tell her that at this time the he/she/they and personal name is not an issue for me, she can call me whatever she feels comfortable with. Just the fact that she is willing is all I need.

I love my wife.
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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natalie.ashlyne

Quote from: Faith on December 14, 2017, 08:35:29 PM
Today my wife and I went to my Dr's appointment (different story)

As we sat in the waiting room my mind wandered too much. My wife looked at me and told me to let it out, so I did. I've made a point of telling how I feel and what I want to do. I've stated many times about my feminine feelings and desires, I always stopped short of actually saying that I wanted to be a woman. This time I said it right out, right down to wanting girl bits (even though that is an unreachable goal at this time).

My wife, who stated first thing that she 'didn't marry a woman', looked me straight in the eyes and said:
"Do you want me to start calling you Faith? I will if you want me to, I don't mind"

I love my wife.

I did tell her that at this time the he/she/they and personal name is not an issue for me, she can call me whatever she feels comfortable with. Just the fact that she is willing is all I need.

I love my wife.

I am happy for you that you have a supporting wife that is so great.
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Cenna

Got told there are women would kill for my hair. Jokes on you I'm one of them!  >:-)
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natalie.ashlyne

I posted a pic of me for onision to say if he would date me he said NO but I was not expecting him to say yes I just wanted my pic on the youtube channel and it was so that made me happy I just was i did a better pic I did that months ago I am the first one in the video

If link is not aloud please remove and I am sorry

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Artesia

My boss told me that my eyes look more alive than she has ever seen them.

One of my residents family members has offered to write me a letter of recommendation to get into the Doctorate program for psychology when I get my bachelor's degree.

My manager keeps begging me to stay at the nursing home.

I was told by several staff members that I am loved there.

Have another interview for a different job.

2 months and 1 week until my court date for my name change.


All the worlds a joke, and the people, merely punchlines

September 13, 2016 HRT start date
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maraesque

Saw the new Star Wars, performed in an improv show...

Oh, and started HRT!
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Megan.

Quote from: maraesque on December 15, 2017, 05:30:41 AM
Saw the new Star Wars, performed in an improv show...

Oh, and started HRT!
Now that's a good day! Enjoy the ride hun. X

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Megan.

Had my trolley,  bag,  purse and shopping stolen at the supermarket...

...You're thinking this the wrong thread...

... Then found the slightly confused and very apologetic old man who'd mistakenly taken my trolley instead of his own. [emoji16]

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Jessica_Rose

I'm still stealth, but I looked in the mirror this morning and saw her looking back at me. What a glorious way to start the day!
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
GCS - GCS and BA w/Dr. Ley
GCS II - GCS II and FFS w/Dr. Ley
FFS II - Jaw and chin surgery w/Dr. Ley
Hair - Hair Restoration
23Mar2017 - HRT / 16Feb2018 - Full Time! / 21Feb2019 - GCS / 26July2019 - GCS II / 13Oct2020 - FFS II
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