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What's your sexuality?

Started by ladytiffielou, February 22, 2018, 01:56:11 AM

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Devlyn

I'm pulsexual....got a pulse? C'mon with me, baby!  :laugh:  >:-)
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Kendra

Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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PollyQMcLovely

My sexuality is purely theoretical.
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Donna

Sexually Confused for a lot of my life. Happily married to a great woman and most definitely asexual
December 2015 noticed strange feelings moving in
December 2016 started to understand what my body has been telling me all my life, started wearing a bra for comfort full time
Spiro and dutastricide 2017
Mid year 2017 Started dressing and going out shopping etc by myself
October T 14.8 / 456
Came out to my wife in December 2017
January 2018 dressing androgenes and still have face hair
Feb 2018 Dressing full time in female clothing out at work and to friends and family, clean shaven and make up
Living full time March 1 2018
March T 7.4 / 236
April 19th eligard injection, no more Testosterone
June 19th a brand new freshly trained HRT and transgender care doctor for me. Only a one day waiting list to become her patient 😍

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amandam

I'm a straight man, with some bi experimentation who is rapidly becoming a straight woman. I think. Maybe a bisexual woman. I'm not really sure any more.
Out of the closet to family 4-2019
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just

for the most part straight, although i have found a few guys (mostly other trans guys) attractive at points in my life. i like to call myself "queer," however, but that is less about my sexual attraction and related more to how i live my life.
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Tamika Olivia

I'm bisexual. I have a lot of fluidity in who I'm attracted to, some days it's men and some days it's women. Right now I'm kinda partial to dudes, but that's always subject to change. I'm also super into people who are non-binary, and those with androgynous gender presentations. I'd call myself pan, but I'm not having that printer cartridge pride flag [emoji13]

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Lyric

After years of observation and consideration of such things, I've come to decide that the usual labels of "straight", "gay" or "bisexual" are inadequate to describe sexuality. Consider, for instance, the "straight" male who finds himself attracted to an attractive transgender person who happens to have a penis. Does this mean he is in fact "bi". No. He is attracted to femininity, just as he always has been. The bodily plumbing matters are basically details to be worked out.

I believe people are usually attracted more to masculinity or femininity, though sometimes to both equally. Of course, to have a physical relationship with someone is another matter, and there are many possibilities there. I am pretty entirely attracted to femininity and detracted from masculinity, though the actual details of bodily gender differences are not that big a deal for me. I love breasts and vaginas, but I can appreciate the penis as well.
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life." - Steve Jobs
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scrubcore

Sexuality is something that I really struggle with, more so after coming out as trans
I've identified as bisexual since circa age 13 and have always been more attracted to women. Now within the last year as I've been socially and physically I've been wondering if I identify as a straight man.
I'm also trying to figure out if I fall somewhere on the asexual spectrum.


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Sonja

Quote from: Transfused on February 22, 2018, 09:56:16 AM
So I'm non-op and hoping to find a boyfriend who is straight and makes an exception about the fact that I have a dick. Yeah, I'm delusional, I know :-/
Actually I think that's really cute, and you have a great sense of humor!  I think a fair amount of people on this forum might have the same feelings and outlook.
I myself am attracted to females/transfemales  ( I have been with a guy and it was fun! - but I don't feel the same emotional connection to men)

Sonja
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CincySixx

Quote from: Christy Lee on February 22, 2018, 02:02:14 AM
I actually hate labeling it, its something thats really confused me through the years, i have been Asexual for a long time because of just how confusing its been, also being Trans....

I feel like im Ace Bisexual tho
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I can agree with this i find myself contemplating the depths of my sexuality and things i have tried and have not tried.
For instance:
I feel demisexual because ive never had casual sex nor do i find it attractive its that bond between
Two souls that really ignites my flame.
I feel pansexual because of that connection with the soul and how the body is but a shell and can
reflect the person inside with effort.
I feel bisexual because i love someone for them initially whether male or female though ive never been
with a man because of my romantic spiritual connection any woman ive been with had they
Just woke up one day as male id still love and please them in any way so . . . yeah
Your mind and soul determine who you are no matter what.
So it is hard to label sexuality unless youre very specific and know exactly what you want.

I guess im a Spirisexual xD
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Payten

Grey ace and bisexual, but holding off on dating until I've transitioned (just started a few months ago).
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Idaliaylix

Lesbian, unfortunately.  I'm exclusively attracted to other feminine, "gender-conforming" women.  Transfused, I can definitely empathize with you not being comfortable with bi men, as I'm not comfortable with bi women.  I'd have far too much insecurity and fear that I'm not being perceived correctly.  So anyone I'd ever want to be with at this point would have to be lesbian, just as feminine, and perfectly comfortable with my genitalia (as I'm non-op).  Yeah, pretty microscopic pool there.   :-\
"...what I seem to be is the monkey wrench in the machinery of everyone's sexual politics...it gets awfully frustrating at times.  What I really am is a paradox in that "transsexual" just doesn't fit into my identity, who I am to myself.  In other words, what I've been through is terribly interesting, but I have no interest in using it to say who I am."

"The transsexual experience, while a major survival issue, is not the central identity-defining factor in our lives, even though it is seen as what makes us different from other people. Despite its magnitude and intensity, it is, in the long run, merely a preliminary step to getting on with our lives."


--Beth Elliott, Mirrors, Portrait of a Lesbian Transsexual

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big kim

Bi,never bothered with sex for a long time (12 years) but hooked up with guys a couple of times in the past year. Pulled a muscle in my leg doing a reverse cow girl last time but it was worth it!
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amandam

I've noticed something. I've recently moved toward almost 100% fantasizing about being a woman having sex with men. But, when I get "close", I find myself thinking of women right before, to get me over the edge. What does this mean? I mean, the thought of men and me as a woman turns me on, so this is "perplexing".
Out of the closet to family 4-2019
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- Rachel -

Hearts, not parts. I have lovers of practically every configuration.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself." -- Robert Frost
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MollyPants

I'm bi and I like either very dominant men or women. I can deal with a more submissive woman though. Kinkiness is a bonus and openness is a must.

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Christy Lee

Im Asexual

Quote from: - Rachel - on March 02, 2018, 04:05:04 PM
Hearts, not parts. I have lovers of practically every configuration.

This
Whose that girll?
ITS CHRISTY

02/05/2018
Started Therapy
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arice

Quote from: AprilRyan on February 22, 2018, 09:41:13 PM
Straight (a little bi) now. That was actually one of the weirdest things to deal with in transitioning, as presenting as male before I was gay (a little bi), and to have the label on my sexuality shift to the other end of the spectrum like that took some getting used to. But I realize I never really 'fit' as a gay man, I was basically a straight woman pretending to be a gay man... Okay, I think i'm making myself dizzy now...  :D
I called myself a gay man trying to pass as a straight woman for a long time... so I get where you are coming from.
I am mostly aromantic (demiromantic is the best descriptor) but sexually attracted to masculinity (in people of all genders). I am pre T/surgery FTM.

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Optera

I am straight in the acts but with strong bi tendencies in reality.
I had lesbian experiences when a child, then had attractions for some specific women, without "practicing it".
More than 80% of my erotic dreams and fantasies for masturbation sessions  :P are with women and me having a penis...
I am not comfortable with the idea of being with a woman if I have to be fully female myself. I have to be male with them and when I'm around women attracted to me, I feel naturally male which I love.
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