Quote from: Cindy on February 23, 2018, 03:56:57 AM
If you knew the date of when you will die, how would it affect how you live?
I have been in a position where I knew the general timeframe, but not the exact date. At least, at the time I knew. Or thought I knew. Based on what I was told. Did it affect how I lived? Yes. Drastically. In that to begin with I didn't want it. I tried to get out of it. To make it my choice.
It's a horrible, horrible feeling to be given a death sentence. To be told that you have to do everything you want to do before a certain date. But it's not even that. You know that with such things it's actually a lot sooner because towards the end you're not going to be physically capable of doing those things. So you have to make a choice. Do it... or don't. Give up... or don't. And that's the hardest choice anyone ever has to make.
I made the wrong choice. I chose to try to end it. Twice. I got lucky, and that's the only reason I'm still here today. It's the only reason I'm able to tell people that the choice I made isn't the right one. Dumb luck.
But because of that, I no longer have that death sentence hanging over my head. At least not at the moment. Who knows about the future. After the second time I decided to give the alternative a try. And to try and make the most of however much time I have left.
You know what? I'm a happier person for it. Life isn't existence. It isn't waiting to die. In the end, we're all doing that, we just don't know when. But knowing when shouldn't make a difference. I learned that, the hard way. Stuff happened to me... some folks know what, most don't, but it isn't important. What is important is the lessons I learned from it. I learned that life is something we have to make for ourselves, and not wait for it to come to us. Live each day as though it were your last.
To quote The Merovingian, in the second Matrix movie:
"Who has time? Who has time? But then if we do not ever take time, how can we ever have time?"Cindy, being useless in life is a matter of perspective. It depends what you consider useful. I believe that life's legacy is the effect you have on other people. What you leave behind. The things you've done, the lives you've touched. The people you've helped on their own path. In the end, who we are comes down to the memories of those we've encountered in our lives. The people we've interacted with. That is our legacy. When we're gone, that's what remains.
And in that, I do not believe you ever have been, or ever will be useless in life. I believe you have a purpose, as do we all. And I think you know what that is. *hugs*