Hi all,
I need some sage advice... I'll be moving into a new flat soon, and I don't really know what to do about my status as a Transsexual. I'm working really hard on passability, so I'm always working on voice or manner or make-up, I'm coming home from electrolysis looking like the lawnmower got to me... the usual.
I've been lucky till now in that I was sharing with my brother, but he just went back home to South Africa (I'm stuck in cold, wet London) and so I've been forced to find a room in a shared flat.
This is awkward, because I was used to being relatively open about myself. He wasn't entirely comfortably with the idea, but he accepted it. Now that he's gone home, I promised myself to really get more 'out there', as much to build confidence and just have some fun as to work on passability, because I want to start my own RLT when I go home to South Africa in August.
This would all have been much easier if I'd managed to get my own flat, but rentals in London...
So, should I just be open about it from the start? Or should I lie through my teeth and tell them I'm working on my voice-over skills? My mom suggested that one...