Hey everyone!
I don't post much, but I have an issue that is really bothering me and would like some advice. I had my top surgery on February 20. I chose a surgeon based loosely on recommendations and heavily on insurance coverage. Since this surgeon had a few satisfied trans clients, was in network, and very trans friendly, I chose him.
However, the surgery was a mess from the first day. Firstly, the doctor AND the anesthesia team told my sister and I that the surgery would take approximately an hour and a half. Three and half hours later, I came out of surgery to a panicked sister. This was dismissed as being "typical time frame" for this type of surgery. I was sent home the same day, which I felt to be a bit soon for this type of surgery. When I got home I was in excruciating pain. I have already had a complete hysterectomy and didn't feel half as bad after that. Then came the bleeding. After the first night, I woke up to very deep purple bruising from my shoulders to my waistline. I was VERY dizzy and unable to even walk. I called the doctor who explained that this was normal. When I followed up in a week, the nipple bolsters came off to reveal black nipples. They were clearly necrotic. He said as long as I kept applying the antibiotic ointment, they had a chance to survive. I also had to keep my drains in for a little over 2 weeks due to all the fluid coming out.
It has now been almost 5 weeks and I look like a monster. My nipples have both died; only scar tissue remains. I have 2 HUGE, crooked incisions from the center of my chest (separated by an inch or so) all the way around to my back, a strange protrusion in the center of my chest, and now, the incision on the right side has opened back up in 3 different places and is oozing pus. Also, the right side of my chest has swollen and is tight, very different from the left side.
I am just at a loss right now. I am not one to sue anyone, but at this point, I don't know what my options are. I don't want him screwing me up again and now insurance will not cover a revision. Any insight is welcome 👍🏽