Who here is attracted to men?

[Ryuichi13]

I think for me, the shock is more "WHY I've always wanted to top cis men," even when I preferred PIV sex (which since going on T I no longer do).  My preferrence of always liking men has never changed, just my preference of HOW I prefer to think of myself, if that makes any sense. 

I suppose you can say that before T, I often wanted to be on top during PIV sex, and now, my urge is to be the one doing the penetrating, even if my current "equipment" isn't enough to penetrate with.

Its frustrating, really.

Ryuichi   

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[Teddy79]

IKR?  It took me by complete and total surprise when I realized I've been gay all this time!  

But I also thought I was the only one that felt like they were "born in the wrong gendered body" for most of my life. 

It was more of a shock realizing I'm gay than being trans is.  I always KNEW I was trans.

Ryuichi

I'll say something non pc. I don't enjoy being around women. I find them sexy, yes, but I don't enjoy their company too much. Of course there are exceptions, but I just feel more at ease, both romantically and sexually and socially, with men. Which explains wonderfully why I feel like I am in the wrong movie given that I have an over average number of kids - and they are all girls. So every school event, I have to hang out with women. I hear about every girl drama. It's draining for me.

[graspthesanity]

Meeeeee!

But my sexuality is a mess, because for every 100 guys I'm attracted to, a woman manages to slide her way in. I've even written about my bizarre experiences with women, they're always messy and every time I end it... I'm like nope, not again! But I keep flip flopping between queer and gay my whole life.

[lc100]

I like men and women, probably those in between as well. However, I have a hard time with cis men. Lots of issues there, even outside of dysphoria. My sexuality labels changed a lot growing up. It's fine now, but I still have issues with cis men.
I don't really equate bodies with gender, though. Not hard for me. I know it's a lot deeper for other guys, though.

[Amadeus]

Yeah, I dated women before my transition but was always secretly bi/pan. The lesbians I hung out with saw bi/pan women as 'traitors' and 'not real lesbians'. Mind you, I technically wasn't a 'real lesbian' either since I was really a man.

It's weird [and TMI, perhaps], but before my transition penetrative sex was very uncomfortable. Even oral didn't really feel good. I couldn't relax and enjoy myself. It was too awkward. I was worried about this when I met a cisguy a few weeks after my chest surgery. We got down to giggity and I waited for that little bit of pain and awkwardness. Never came. It was like the clouds parted and a shower of rainbow light fell upon us as the gods said "About damn time, Buddy Boy!"

Over the next couple years as I became more and more comfortable with myself, sex got better and better. Now I primarily date men but would probably go out with a woman if we had a good connection. So, I guess I'm a gay boy after all. [Now if I could just let myself enjoy musicals...]

[Teddy79]

Thanks, that was interesting to read. Don't mind the TMI

Yeah, I dated women before my transition but was always secretly bi/pan. The lesbians I hung out with saw bi/pan women as 'traitors' and 'not real lesbians'. Mind you, I technically wasn't a 'real lesbian' either since I was really a man.

It's weird [and TMI, perhaps], but before my transition penetrative sex was very uncomfortable. Even oral didn't really feel good. I couldn't relax and enjoy myself. It was too awkward. I was worried about this when I met a cisguy a few weeks after my chest surgery. We got down to giggity and I waited for that little bit of pain and awkwardness. Never came. It was like the clouds parted and a shower of rainbow light fell upon us as the gods said "About damn time, Buddy Boy!"

Over the next couple years as I became more and more comfortable with myself, sex got better and better. Now I primarily date men but would probably go out with a woman if we had a good connection. So, I guess I'm a gay boy after all. [Now if I could just let myself enjoy musicals...]

[Hades]

I have always been attracted to men. There were only two girls I ever had crushes on when I was a teenager and both of them were butch lesbians. I've taken that to mean I'm attracted to masculinity and masculine presentation. My current boyfriend is a trans man and we've been together for several years. I've never had a problem with his body and have always been sexually attracted to him the same way I'm attracted to the bodies of cis men.

[Mynameisjohn]

as a female to male i find women attractive but i guess i find trans men who look female attractive to but not a full male. i have a girlfriend now who thought i was born male but after falling in love and having so much in comany with our familes, i finally told her(which as you'd expect was a shock) but after time to think and accepting me we now have a child together. our 6 month old boy. im his legal daddy.

but back to the question,no i find women attractive.