Hi, an interesting thing happened the other day. I have always thought I was a non-transitioning TG MTF. I don't want to transition in order to preserve my marriage and long-lasting relationships with my kids and friends. I have had gender dysphoria for a while now.
I have never thought about how I feel about my gender when it comes to having sex. My wife and I have wonderful sex that excites me to no end. Although other times I feel like being more feminine, I have come to realize that I like my male anatomy while having sex. I love my penis ~ what it does, where it goes, how it feels and what my wife says about it.
That realization has significantly reduced my gender dysphoria. It is a relief to know that I don't need to change my body since I am terrified of meds, surgery, not passing, prejudice and discrimination ~ all things that I think will worsen my depression. I'm no longer sure where I fall on the gender spectrum. I don't care about labels because we are all individuals, but maybe I am non-binary or gender fluid.
I would love to hear if anyone has any thoughts or insights.