I would honestly love to see ct/xrays of folks hips that have been on HRT a long time. Did the bone structure change? I know fat distribution certainly can. My hips have mostly feminine shape but the iliac crest looks annoyingly androgynous / masculine. Maybe if I hit the crest repeatedly with a blunt object... lol. Probably bad idea, but that's my ancient approach to a problem. Hammer away until it becomes what it must be

This tenacity has gotten me this far.. and far indeed it is! Its odd.. like the left hip looks feminine, and the right more masculine.. perhaps its simply the angle the CT scan was taken too, slightly off.
Just call it mule headed stubbornness, but sometimes that's necessary too.
My hips appear female to me. Then again I 'cheat'

Maybe yours can too?