I hope you don't mind me replying? I'm in the FTM area, but have therefore worn quite a bit of makeup over the years! But then again anything I say is just my unprofessional, subjective opinion and may be wrong.
I think you've done a really good job there
The BB cream and concealer seem to be working well for you. I'd say that if you can get away with it, stick with the lighter coverage - it looks more natural (and not like you're "trying too hard") It is a little bit shiny, but then again I've seen in recent years the younger girls especially have been doing that look more. It became quite trendy. I'm old-school with greasy skin and tended to go for matte and plenty of powder but there are definitely downsides to it and it made me look a bit dated.
Oooo yeah I'd add in that, if you are a newbie to it. Makeup has trends and fashions as much as clothing does! I'm not sure what it would be like where you are. I'm in the UK and a lot of the makeup I notice or see with gals wandering around the cosmetics section of Boots are mostly younger women fwiw.
Again, in recent years slightly heavier eyebrows have been "in" with plenty of products to fill in, plump or dye brows becoming prominent in the major makeup brands, within limits.
Your eyeshadow is on the slightly heavier, smoky side so might not fit as well in some social situations, but looks good! Eyeliner... is a personal preference really. Some people extend the lines outwards past the corner for "cats eye" effect or we used to call them pointy-liners. But a lot of women don't and stop at the corner. I'd say since your eyes are lovely that I'd not take it too far, again in terms of looking more natural. Don't worry about the wobbly line and smudging thing! Plenty of cis-women (even older and more practised cis-women) have trouble with doing eyeliner well
Smudging is indeed a good way to hide slightly wobbly lines. Alternatively if you want a crisper look, you can experiment with taking a cotton-bud/Q-tip with a tiny bit of make up remover or moisturiser on the end and gently run it along the bottom of the eyeliner line to clean it up. (Probably powder a bit over it when done to blend into the concealer and avoid panda eye later on)
I used to suck at mascara. As a teenager I had more than a few "poked myself in the eye with a mascara wand" make up disasters that had me running late for parties or going out
With the eyeshadow you have on there, you probably want to stick with neutrals/nudes in terms of lipstick. The *general* rule for non-models, everyday life is to pick either eyes or lips to accentuate, doing both full-on can look overwhelming (and again I'm bearing in mind natural). You might want to look at lipglosses rather than lipstick?
Blusher is a variable one. We all have different face shapes. Google search a bit about blusher and contouring. There are photos and tutorials out there, and for making the best of different face shapes. I think I read that blusher is best not applied in stripes down the sides if you are wanting a feminine look. Think "round", (but not clown-round!) the apples of the cheek for blusher more of a half-oval over the apples. What you want to avoid are long lines, stripes, harsh straight lines and angles. Blend things out so there are softer and vaguer outlines. That said I'm not sure you need blusher. With your fantastic eyes and full lips it might be too much - gilding the lily.
Play around with it, don't be afraid. A lot of cis-women will experiment with makeup at home and then wipe it all off again.
I suspect you might benefit from a little bit of highlighter on the centre of your chin (google it) as in the front bit under your lips, not the bottom edge. And a little bit sort of below your eyes and above where you'd put blusher.
But go easy on the highlighter and contouring if you choose to use it. Too heavy can look like "teenage girl trying too hard to look like a magazine model".
I think you look lovely!
