homophobia etc what is it really about?

[tinkerbell]

Homophobia is an aversion to gay people and their lifestyle or culture. Most people who are homophobic are closeted homosexuals themselves, for they use their hatred as a shield to hide their true sexual preference.


tinkerbell

[HelenW]

Believe it or not, I think it's the "EWWW!" factor in many cases.  Maybe not in the virulent kind of homophobia but in the kind where a straight guy, who happens to see two guys kissing, says, "That's just disgusting."  meaning that HE would never do that and how could anyone else?  Yes, narrow mindedness - or maybe a simple lack of enough imagination to get that someone may actually LIKE to do that sort of thing.  This really was said to me and I answered, "Maybe it feels that way because it's not something you normally see?"  He changed the subject after that.

Never kissed a guy but is beginning to think it may not be all THAT bad
helen

[Melissa]

Girls are better kissers.

Cindi

Yes, I can attest to this.

Melissa

[jan c]

And when two of 'em go at it, well it's all about aesthetics isn't it? It might even appear, it could feel, I don't know,  *poetic* when girls display some love.
But there are some who want to stamp that out.

What's that all about?

[jan c]

A lotta authorities around and about.

A lotta sexual frustration can't find no release.

Whole lotta toppin' goin on;

Only it must be called something else.

When some people get a glimpse of the chaos that is the universe,

They find a way to impose some kind of artificial controls on it.

Whether it's the daily intake regimen of food/drink/medicine, what-have-you

Or whether it's the language you can't bear to hear

Or the behavior of others that partially reveals to you your own SIN.

You find a domme

You find a sub or two or three

You define your GOD

accordingly

it's some real sick st*ff

(oops used a bad word, MASKED it, but there it is

Me I'm trying to lose the mask. But that's just me.)