So, I have never been a fan of anime. When I was a little-little kid I liked Pokemon, but by age 10 I had grown out of it and was pretty unnerved by Japanese animation for some reason. I couldn't stand any cartoons that looked too realistic. Even American pseudo-anime felt wrong to me.
For me, personally, I always looked up to gender-bending musicians like Gerard Way, Otep, Joan Jett, Andy Biersack, Bill Kaulitz, Ronnie Radke etc. I was into emo and that was how I expressed femininity in high school: long flat-ironed/teased hair, bracelets/necklaces, girls' jeans/t-shirts, eyeliner/mascara.
But, as it turns out, many, MANY trans people I have known in real life and online were, at one point or another, fans of anime and/or cosplayers.
I can make all kinds of guesses as to what might draw trans people to these sorts of subcultures, but I'd like to hear it from y'all.
Enlighten me!
(And also, mind you, I have no knowledge about anything anime related so definitions of terms would be ever so helpful! A friend of mind mentioned "futanari" and I made the mistake of Googling it... I'd like to avoid uncomfortable situations like that...)