What was it they say in the book Dune. "Fear is the mind killer" and this is so true. My Greatest fears thru all this was in making the desision to transition and all it carried. After that telling my wife, everything else has been nothing more than some apprehensions about each new step. Once beyond the fear and you are already it's master, it can be such a wonderful journey. I'm still finding new firsts every day even down to little thing like discussing a new neck line on a blouse. Something he would never had done or understood.
Harness the fear and let it make you more powerful and live as you need proudly.