Ohh, Ogunquit! I LOVE Ogunquit!!!!
Of course I've only been there 1 time (for 3 days), but it was at the end of the "Canadian Tourist" season and the weather was perfect and the crowds had thinned out and the dining out was just wonderful!
Still, I was with my (non-accepting) wife so I wasn't dressed, even "stealth", so I don't know what kind of reception you might receive. But even if you had to put on boys clothes, It Is Worth It!
Carolina