Nice to meet you, Gwen!
So glad that you've made the big decision to start being honest with yourself and also relying on this community for support! I may not be able to help much, since I'm still kinda new to everything, but I will try to help whenever I can!
Don't just rely on girls that have been there(though, these girls have an amazing wealth of knowledge and experience that will surely help you like you said) but also, I find I really enjoy mingling with the new girls, too! Because you may be at the same exact place in your transitions and I dunno, there's just something I can't describe well about going through my transition alongside others.
Anyway, hope to see you around the forums, Gwen! (pretty name, btw)
Much love,
Eryn