Sometimes I feel feminine sometimes I dont

[MikeP]

Therapist know the right questions to ask. Often we confuse the issue by having far to many thoughts that don't apply. Removing the clutter and getting directly to the issue at hand is well worth the money you pay a good therapist. A good therapist can save you years of questioning meaning more years of happiness and fewer of pain.

I would sure agree with Dena, I am a someone in between but not sure in between what?  I do know that having all my feelings out on the table with others that understand or have been there is a great resource.    "READ THE PROSPECTUS CAREFULLY"