Hey! I figured I would spread some good news. I haven't been on as much but getting messages from old pen pals wanting to catch up so I will just have verbal water fall here!
As I have mentioned in prior posts 2018 has been a crappy year so far. Between let's say mid or end of January until largely sometime in June my life has in the gutters. Recently however, thanks To therpay and finding good work my life has gotten better!
I am sadly still waiting to hear back for orchi and eventual GRS to turn the outtie into an innie but I should be hearing back soon.
I am however going to be meeting a potential S/O! She is mtf too and we met here as a matter of fact a while ago. This pst gear we have been courting eachother and talking a lot and getting a ball rolling for a relationship! She's coming from Derby UK to meet me at the Winnipeg Airport and spend two weeks with me! I'm so excited this would be my first date at any point in the past four years since I first came out and if it's a match, my first relationship since my one and only during high school that came to an end in 2010.
I recently got a brand new job as one of the cooks at a casino in southwestern Manitoba! It's a decent wages job and now I can look for my own place without roomates! Everyone is so awesome! I am finnally making more then minimal wage and have potential to grow in this position too! As said, everyone I work with is great. My "weekends" will more or less be Mondays and Tuesdays which is fine by me. On Wednesday and thursdays I am working with two female cooks until close and we kicked it off great! One has told me since night one I "better come back" and the other and I work well and are friends already! Those girls are wicked. Friday Saturday and Sunday however the two cooks are the males, but it's all good! They treat me very respectfully and since one is one of the heads of the kitchen I guess I impressed him and he gave me nothing but good compliments. It was adorable, yesterday at shift change I was going to take out the garbages but the two guys did instead as they always "do it for the girls" xD, hey atleast I'm not being misgendered and I am being treated as a lady!!
With that said, I made a post here not too long ago about my old fear of uniform and hair dress. That doesn't seem to be an issue anymore. Either I have feminized even more in a short period of time or I am more comfortable and confident in what I see in the mirror. I don't even see "him" when my hair is tied back and I have Conservative amount of make up (meaning just wearing foundation). It's actually caught me off guard a night or two ago I almost wanted to jump with joy!
So yes! I have a great job, I am soon to get my own place and veichle, I could very well have a long lasting relationship (plans are in the works of where we gonna live is we are compatible) I am going to get my surgeries soon (just one phone call away from both places) I am going be be able to finish laser as well and my mental health has gotten better! All this stuff is happening and I'm not even 25 yet! And all these things will be solid and set in stone before 2020s making next decade already better start then the 2010s!
