I have waited a long time for this but truth be told my fear of mirrors is over! I just started a new job and my old nemesis of uniform with hair tied right back to then head used to make me anxious for numerous positions I once held. Including having that distraught feeling male me quit a job. Even tho I was on her for a bit I couldn't shake "him"away when i saw my hair hidden and couldn't wear my femme girl clothing.
However, at this new job this fear isn't an issue anymore. I look really good in my uniform and I have noticed even with hair back my face is very feminine now. My eyes, face structure, ext has all feminized!! I can't wait for work!