Heya, Jenny! Welcome to the community!
Glad you decided to join in and hope to see you around the forums!
Many of us(myself included) are big geeks and love nerdy stuff. I think since those are kinda more generally accepted as gender-neutral interests, though they don't have to be constricted to gender anyway, I'm just saying there's a lot more geeks that are MtF, than 'jocks' who are.
I'm glad you were able to remove that toxicity from your life, especially if it was inhibiting you from being happy and true to yourself! Makeup is a tough puzzle(or at least it is for me) and I'm fairly new to transitioning, if you decide to go that route, so I'll try to help ya anyway I can.
When I first joined I didn't update my gender to F on the profile for several weeks. What I found, and you might too, is that each little thing beyond clothes and makeup will bring you immense joy; and if that is the case, I do think then you might want to really consider transitioning.
Transitioning is difficult, but so incredibly rewarding to your health and your spirit.
Have a wonderful life, hun!
Much love,
Eryn
