I´m nearly 2 weeks post-op. I couldn´t pee after 5 days when I was discharged and had to go to hotel with catether, which was a huge disappointment.
After few days, the cathether was removed and I again tried to pee...in vain.
I would not have been able to pee at that time and I still couldn´t pee, unless I would have tried all sorts of different positions above the toilet seat. Finally I found out that squatting above the toilet seat like a ski jumper worked. I could pee.
Even now after two weeks, I cannot sit on the toilet seat and pee. Doesn´t work. I have to squat. And above all like someone mentioned, you need to learn to use your lower abdomen muscles...just like cis women