Reflecting on my past as someone who has changed their gender, I've found that embracing it has been essential for my growth and well-being. Transitioning has been a profound journey of self-discovery, one that required me to confront and accept my history in order to build a more authentic future.
For me, burying my past would mean denying a part of my identity and the experiences that shaped who I am today. Embracing it, however, has allowed me to integrate all facets of my life, honoring where I came from while celebrating who I've become. Each step, even the difficult ones, has contributed to my strength and resilience.
Regarding the dichotomy of the question (embracing versus burying the past,), I believe there are more nuanced options. It's not always about fully accepting or completely ignoring past experiences. Sometimes, it's about finding a middle ground—acknowledging the past without letting it define you, learning from it without being consumed by it. The key is to use the past as a foundation for building a better present and future, allowing for healing and personal growth.
In my experience, navigating gender transition involves a continuous process of reconciling past and present identities. This reconciliation doesn't fit neatly into a binary choice of embracing or burying the past. Instead, it's a dynamic, ongoing journey of self-acceptance and transformation. That said, my past is mine.. and I share it only with those whom I want to. That is very few people at all.