Yet another thing I don't understand about guys.

[Julia1996]

Hi everyone. Another male behavior I don't understand is when guys find watching lesbian sex hot and a turn on but find watching 2 guys having sex repulsive. I got Tyler and Tristan into Orange is the new black. Obviously there are lesbian sex scenes on the show. When such a scene is shown both Tristan and Tyler perk up and pay closer attention. Tyler will just say he thinks it's hot. Tristan doesn't say anything but he gets this dumb smile on his face. Ok, so while I was waiting for the new season of OITNB I found a show called OZ on amazon. Oz is an older show but it's also a prison show. But Oz is set in a men's prison. There are more sex scenes in Oz than OITNB. Obviously the sex scenes are between guys. The scenes are kind of graphic as far as kissing, French kissing and petting. They don't show the actual anal sex but pretty close. So Tristan and Tyler also watch Oz with me. When they show 2 guys going at it they don't really say anything but they get weird looks on their faces, cringe, turn away and gasp a little. It's quite clear the scenes with guys having sex totally skeezes them out. But why? Sex between guys or between girls are both homosexual sex. So why do they find lesbian sex hot and sex between guys nasty?

I thought maybe it was because they are attracted to women but that doesn't really seem too logical. I am attracted to guys but I don't find 2 guys having sex hot or a turn on. I admit there is a slight Ewww factor for me concerning lesbian sex but it doesn't disgust me or skeeze me out if I see a lesbian sex scene. So what's the deal with guys thinking lesbian sex is hot but sex between 2 guys gross?  It doesn't make sense to me to find some homosexual sex a turn on and another repulsive. I wonder if anyone has an explanation but I fear this will end up being a male behavior mystery.

On a funny note, Tyler always was a fan of Law & Order SVU. The guy who played Elliott plays on Oz as a prisoner. The first time Tyler saw him get busy with another guy on Oz he was just totally shocked. He said he couldn't believe that was happening. I asked him what he was talking about and he said he couldn't believe Elliott from law & order was making out with another guy. I started laughing! That guy is just an actor. His character on Oz is no more real than his law and order character. Tyler said it just didn't seem right to see him kissing another guy. Lol.😂

[MeTony]

Maybe they identify with the men having sex and not the women. It is easier to be a bystander if you don't identify with either part.

[GordonG]

Most guys are conditioned to be "anti gay" to the extreme. I mean EXTREME! If you were to read about men who like to be pegged, most of them would say. "but I'm not gay." I find pegging to be very erotic and fun. And I wouldn't mind trying a real penis. But then I admit to be bi-sexual leaning.

Being a guy and having anything to do with being intimate with another is very very troubling to most men. At least don't let anyone know. Secretly I think some men wouldn't mind at all.

[I_Am_Hazel]

I agree with what Gordon said for sure. Another factor could be that they're simply not getting anything out of seeing two guys go at it. They're not watching for the relationship or the interaction when they're watching a lesbian scene, they're watching because there's a lot happening that they're attracted to, they can easily place themselves in that scene. Not so much with two dudes.

Hazel

[Virginia]

(Cisgender straight guy chiming in)
Dunno, but it IS hot.
Perhaps contemplating the reason for the "slight Ewww factor" you have over lesbian sex might give you the insights you are looking for?

[GingerVicki]

@Julia1996
I use to watch OZ all the time back in the day.

Men are visual when it comes to sex and because of this most may not be able to stop seeing themselves in that situation.

[LexieDragon]

Toxic Masculinity.


Put simply, men are sleeved by gay sex because of the thought that one of them is the "woman" and is not man enough. It's absolutely ridiculous.

In my case I do not like gay sex for the same reason I do not like anal sex. And that is my exit only philosophy because we germs and poop love there. Gay oral sex, kissing, and the like neither turn me on nor skeeve me out.


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[Lady Sarah]

It seems the reason is that most men are attracted to naked women, and repulsed by naked men. What's better than one naked chick? Two naked chicks. Ask any straight man.
There is not nearly as much interest in seeing what goes on between two men, except the viewers who happen to be gay.

See the point?

[Allison S]

I kinda like watching 2 men together...lol I don't care if it's 2 women, or lesbians, but 2 guys together is very sexy! I think at least [emoji4]

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[TonyaW]

It seems the reason is that most men are attracted to naked women, and repulsed by naked men. What's better than one naked chick? Two naked chicks. Ask any straight man.
There is not nearly as much interest in seeing what goes on between two men, except the viewers who happen to be gay.

See the point?

Also it plays into a common fantasy of having two women at same time and that the women are only doing that because there is no guy around. Which also leads to the male ego thing that the lesbians just haven't met the right guy and that they could turn them.

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[4A-GZE]

As someone who's only attracted to women, I find sex to be extremely hot as long as one is involved. Two guys together? Ehhhh, it does nothing for me.

[Gertrude]

Hi everyone. Another male behavior I don't understand is when guys find watching lesbian sex hot and a turn on but find watching 2 guys having sex repulsive. I got Tyler and Tristan into Orange is the new black. Obviously there are lesbian sex scenes on the show. When such a scene is shown both Tristan and Tyler perk up and pay closer attention. Tyler will just say he thinks it's hot. Tristan doesn't say anything but he gets this dumb smile on his face. Ok, so while I was waiting for the new season of OITNB I found a show called OZ on amazon. Oz is an older show but it's also a prison show. But Oz is set in a men's prison. There are more sex scenes in Oz than OITNB. Obviously the sex scenes are between guys. The scenes are kind of graphic as far as kissing, French kissing and petting. They don't show the actual anal sex but pretty close. So Tristan and Tyler also watch Oz with me. When they show 2 guys going at it they don't really say anything but they get weird looks on their faces, cringe, turn away and gasp a little. It's quite clear the scenes with guys having sex totally skeezes them out. But why? Sex between guys or between girls are both homosexual sex. So why do they find lesbian sex hot and sex between guys nasty?

I thought maybe it was because they are attracted to women but that doesn't really seem too logical. I am attracted to guys but I don't find 2 guys having sex hot or a turn on. I admit there is a slight Ewww factor for me concerning lesbian sex but it doesn't disgust me or skeeze me out if I see a lesbian sex scene. So what's the deal with guys thinking lesbian sex is hot but sex between 2 guys gross?  It doesn't make sense to me to find some homosexual sex a turn on and another repulsive. I wonder if anyone has an explanation but I fear this will end up being a male behavior mystery.

On a funny note, Tyler always was a fan of Law & Order SVU. The guy who played Elliott plays on Oz as a prisoner. The first time Tyler saw him get busy with another guy on Oz he was just totally shocked. He said he couldn't believe that was happening. I asked him what he was talking about and he said he couldn't believe Elliott from law & order was making out with another guy. I started laughing! That guy is just an actor. His character on Oz is no more real than his law and order character. Tyler said it just didn't seem right to see him kissing another guy. Lol.[emoji23]

There is oral sex on oz too and one character was trans. A crazy show.


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