Would either of these packers be okay for me?

[randomoutsider]

I'm 14 (but most people think I'm 16-18) and have been really thinking about buying a packer to  alleviate my bottom dysphoria but I don't know what's the right size for me. I'm 5'4 and 160 pounds and plan to lose 20 pounds if that matters. I've been thinking about getting the small mr.limpy (3.5") or the small sailor (4"), would these be okay for me? I have very bad judgment and want to make sure that you could notice that there's something there. Also if this matters: I wear skinny jeans and sweatpants most of the time.

[Northern Star Girl]

I'm 14 (but most people think I'm 16-18) and have been really thinking about buying a packer to  alleviate my bottom dysphoria but I don't know what's the right size for me. I'm 5'4 and 160 pounds and plan to lose 20 pounds if that matters. I've been thinking about getting the small mr.limpy (3.5") or the small sailor (4"), would these be okay for me? I have very bad judgment and want to make sure that you could notice that there's something there. Also if this matters: I wear skinny jeans and sweatpants most of the time.

@randomoutsider 
Dear Randomoutsider:
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Please allow me to do first things first then you can have your thread back.

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[Northern Star Girl]

@randomoutsider 
Oh, and another thing Randomoutsider:
Just before I let you have your thread and posting back so that other members can comment on your concerns.....

Since you are 14 years old, as one of our younger members,
please stop by the Youth Introductions Forum  to tell more members about yourself and your arrival here on the Forums.[/color]  You can include some brief information about yourself there so other like-minded members will be able to share with you, and you with them.

Enjoy your time here on the Forums, I trust that you will find this an enjoyable and informative experience.
Best wishes to you.... and again, Welcome to Susan's Place
Danielle

[Ryuichi13]

Getting a Mr Limpy is a great start.  Its inexpensive, and you can experiment with it.  I don't know exactly what you're looking for, but those sizes seem to be popular. 

Ryuichi