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Started by LizK, September 07, 2018, 05:45:52 AM

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LizK

Hi Danielle

I am glad you are enjoying the updates...was trying to think of a way to introduce the dialators into my story...they "shoved" their way into my life 2 days ago...

I will update properly a bit later this morning but wanted to thank you for your continued support...I may not have said it to you properly but I really appreciate your support

Thanks [emoji8]

Take care

Liz


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Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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LizK

Post Op Day 9....Renewal

My recovery continues at a steady pace. Plenty of surprises as I get used to my new "bits".... Dialation is.....different than I expect and this close to surgery does give me some  discomfort as my vaginal canal([emoji3]) feels "bruised" especially the first one for the day

I am having real difficulty doing much more than short walks...yesterday I managed to walk to breakfast and back ...maybe 1/2km in total. By the time I got Back to the apartment I was exhausted and fell onto the couch sleeping for nearly 2 hrs....I managed some lunch and then spent the rest of the day resting on my bed.

Being back on HRT is making me start to feel human again...only back on my third dose. I am sure many of you know what its like to go from 0 to full dose....but a new experience for me. I can notice the HRT already after just over 5weeks having none...all the usual stuff, mood swings ,sweats ,increased appetite, feelings of well being and calm, Will take a while to get some of the gains back. I have noticed I am attracting far more attention than normal...but then again I look like I have been dragged through a bush backward...my skin is oily, My hair is dry, frizzy and falling out, I have increased hair facial hair growth, eyebrows like dancing worms...I don't actually care that much how I look....a few weeks from now and you will never know.[emoji3]

The reason I titled this Renewal is because today I had confirmed for me what I thought had gone on with my parents and my brother.....They have not accepted me but tolerate me because I am "blood". They don't understand and have heaps of issues about me being trans despite telling me for the last 3 1/2 years that they were "Fine"....all the time having significant issues that they tried to make me believe were in my head.


Renewal is for me...My new Birthday is 4 December and the family I have does not include my parents or brother.... I have so many wonderful people in my life being positive I do not need them or their negativity. If it causes them some problems then I am sure they will get over it. I feel content...the dysphoria has stopped raging and appears to be losing any power it had. Yes there will always be things that will cause me to experience it...but it has lost a significant amount of its potency.

So how do I feel about myself now, I feel GOOD..VERY GOOD about myself and who I am...

This post has taken me all day to write and now its time to post but before I finish I wanted to share this



From Nicole....Thanks Nicole [emoji8]

Take care

Liz

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HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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davina61

That's nice, now you take it easy and don't overdo things . Look after that nice young man , whats he called Excalibur?  :icon_bunch: from me XXXXXXXX
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Kirsteneklund7

Hi Liz,
          It often seems we have to take the initiative being trans individuals. Some friends & family seem to cope no worries. Others seem to see it as a personal affront. It seems we often have to push the education angle and leadership in explaining& understanding what trans is.
I personally have mixed results with friends and family when just telling it like it is. Not everyone thinks I'm fair dinkum.

Funny though when this stuff has been evident for years.

I love hearing your story Liz.

Kindest regards, Kirsten.

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sarah1972

Thank you Liz for your long update! I am happy to read your recovery is going reasonably well. I can not imagine how big of a change it must be to be and feel right. Glad to read you are walking again! You are only a few days post op and it seems you have made great progress so far.

Sorry to hear about your family trouble. I do like you are still having positive spirits and having friends and new family is a great bonus too!

If you name the small one Excalibur, what about the other ones?

When will you be able to go home?

Hope you recovery continues as well as it has started, not much longer and you will be back to your 5k walks....

Hugs,

Sarah

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JudiBlueEyes

Thank you for the nice update.  I hope your healing continues well. I understand how taking short walks can be tiring!  Yes, going back to full dose of E can be hard!  I had to ramp up slowly.  Sorry to read about your family but I suppose you aren't surprised.  You can move on emotionally now and let them catch up, if they wish. 
But now old friends they're acting strange
They shake their heads, they say I've changed
Well something's lost, but something's gained
In living every day.
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KathyLauren

I am glad that you are healing, albeit slowly.  Take your time; don't push yourself faster than your body can cope.  So sorry to hear about the loss of your blood family.  You have plenty of family-by-choice to make up for them.

Quote from: LizK on December 13, 2018, 12:58:45 AM
So how do I feel about myself now, I feel GOOD..VERY GOOD about myself and who I am...

Yay!  That's what this journey is all about.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Nicole70

Hi Liz,

Glad your recovery is going well, I'm amazed at how well you are doing already [emoji4]. Hopefully you should be back home soon.

Hugs

Nicole
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LizK

Nicole thankyou for the wonderful flowers, chocolates and support. That was really sweet of you




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Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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Jennifer M

Quote from: davina61 on December 11, 2018, 10:47:52 AM
What about Guinevere and Excalibur
It looks like I missed the time frame on the naming. I didn't have one for the bear, but thought Deep Purple would have been a good name for the other.


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LizK

Hi to everyone

This is a very short post to say I am ok and recovering well..Arrived home Wednesday night about 7pm and eventually found my way to be about midnight.. The last day or so have been recovering from the trip home from. Melbourne ....I have been so tired...but hopefully tomorrow I will be able to post a full update...

Take care

Liz



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HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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davina61

wont be long and you will be sprinting round the park!!!! have a good rest and don't eat to many Christmas chock's Take all the rest you can get dear as you body recovers and if it don't get around to it have a lovely Christmas XXXXXXXXXXXX
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HappyMoni

Hi Liz,
   I am happy to see  you are doing so well. I love the attitude you have toward family, very healthy! Love hearing the dysphoria is departing. It all sounds about right. Don't  be surprised if you get a little sad once the excitement wears off and recovering starts getting old. It happened to me, but it didn't last.
   Okay, what crass American version of a Aussie stereotype can I leave you with? Hope to hear of you hopping around like a kangaroo soon. (Sorry, that was bad, but I do have to keep up my rep for horrible humor, you understand!)
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
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HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Michelle_P

Liz, I hope you continue to heal well.  Remember, don't push it! 

For everyone, a teeny little bit too much can have pretty severe consequences, at this early stage of healing.  I've had the unfortunate experience of seeing someone's W incision ripped completely open because they walked a little too far, too soon, and ignored their body's warnings... They were OK after an ER visit, medical evac, and three weeks in hospital.  :(
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LizK

#415
The first of The final few updates

I would first of all like to thank you all for the continued support throughout this journey.
I am home trying to get my life back into some kind of routine. Taking care of me is a big commitment which will get simpler with time. 

I cannot speak highly enough of the care I received whilst at Masada Hospital under the care of Mr Ives. I at all times had confidence his care and skill...He has a method and everything is done in a certain way for a reason. Following his guidelines along with the addition of Iffy the Specialist Nurse who I might add is fantastic, an absolute professional with a depth of knowledge second to none. The care I received at Masada Hospital was excellent and those nurses really know their stuff and care. The work really hard at trying to make things comfortable and help in any way they can.

I have spoken with HR Department from Knox Hospital and we discussed my concerns. Suffice to say they are aware of the issue and I am sure this is more likely a very localised issue that they are addressing. I think that the next one of Mr Ives patients that goes there will have a much better experience which is a good outcome.
How do I feel about the decision to go to Knox to be in ICU? Let me just say there was an "incident" as I came out of the anaesthetic involving my hip...in the end they put me "out" again and I came too in ICU as per my photo.  I am glad I was in ICU and not on the ward at Knox for the first 12 Hrs.

This surgery exacts a toll on your body which is far greater than I realised or expected and while your body is frantically trying to heal there is not a great deal of spare energy left. If you are overweight try and lose some of it...but most of all get fit. I am so glad I pushed myself to the end. I have a fast initial recovery and I was able to manage my pain really well. I have been doing it for awhile and the nurses were happy on the whole with the way I was managing it so it was a win, win. Had I not been physically fit then this would have been way more difficult than it already is.

I welcome PM's or emails, I am on Facebook and I will remain in the forum. But for the moment I need to concentrate on getting through this recovery. . I will continue to update this thread but I think I have accomplished. in this thread was to give an account of what it was like to have GCS with Mr Ives in Melbourne I will be reading the forums but not necessarily responding. I have my next Post op follow up with Mr Ives and Iffy at the end of January; we will see from there what changes.

I set out at the beginning of this thread to try and give anyone thinking about GCS, having GCS or wondering what it's like to have GCS here in Australia in Melbourne the straigh forward druim on my experience which overall whaty good..

I have shared my preparation which came with its own set of challenges  ;D  introduced you to the joys of physical hair removal, we have been on a journey of jumping not just through but over and under hoops. We have plumbed the depths of despair when dates were changed and airfares and accommodation costs were teetering on being lost seeing the whole enterprise come tumbling down to the joys of things working better than I could have imagined. You were with me through the long days weeks hour and minutes wait to surgery, and there to greet me when it was behind me...You were there to witness the joy of renewal and you were there to be introduced to the realities of being post GCS life.....but now this next part, this recovery of my body and my psyche...well my dear friends, and there are so many of you, that part, is mine to do mostly on my own.... it won't be long till the next update. :)

Hopefully one day soon my recovery will be a small part of my life and not its entire focus. I don't imagine it will be to long before I can post update but in the meantime I will be around the forums.  ;) :)

Take Care

Liz
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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davina61

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year dear XXXXXXX
a long time coming (out) HRT 12 2017
GRS 2021 5th Nov

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Know a bit about everything but not enough to be clever
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Northern Star Girl

@LizK
My Dear Liz:
I have been very much enjoyed reading your recent updates and photos that you have been posting and following your life journey.  This is definitely the season for all of us to find happiness in our lives.

For some, this can be a very difficult time of year but I hope and trust that you are finding the joy and happiness that you so much deserve,  so I am wishing you a very
  MERRY CHRISTMAS
and a prosperous and Happy NEW YEAR 

Hugs and as always, Well Wishes
Danielle
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Ayla

Quote from: LizK on December 23, 2018, 10:37:04 PM
The first of The final few updates

I would first of all like to thank you all for the continued support throughout this journey.
I am home trying to get my life back into some kind of routine. Taking care of me is a big commitment which will get simpler with time. 

I cannot speak highly enough of the care I received whilst at Masada Hospital under the care of Mr Ives. I at all times had confidence his care and skill...He has a method and everything is done in a certain way for a reason. Following his guidelines along with the addition of Iffy the Specialist Nurse who I might add is fantastic, an absolute professional with a depth of knowledge second to none. The care I received at Masada Hospital was excellent and those nurses really know their stuff and care. The work really hard at trying to make things comfortable and help in any way they can.

I have spoken with HR Department from Knox Hospital and we discussed my concerns. Suffice to say they are aware of the issue and I am sure this is more likely a very localised issue that they are addressing. I think that the next one of Mr Ives patients that goes there will have a much better experience which is a good outcome.
How do I feel about the decision to go to Knox to be in ICU? Let me just say there was an "incident" as I came out of the anaesthetic involving my hip...in the end they put me "out" again and I came too in ICU as per my photo.  I am glad I was in ICU and not on the ward at Knox for the first 12 Hrs.

This surgery exacts a toll on your body which is far greater than I realised or expected and while your body is frantically trying to heal there is not a great deal of spare energy left. If you are overweight try and lose some of it...but most of all get fit. I am so glad I pushed myself to the end. I have a fast initial recovery and I was able to manage my pain really well. I have been doing it for awhile and the nurses were happy on the whole with the way I was managing it so it was a win, win. Had I not been physically fit then this would have been way more difficult than it already is.

I welcome PM's or emails, I am on Facebook and I will remain in the forum. But for the moment I need to concentrate on getting through this recovery. . I will continue to update this thread but I think I have accomplished. in this thread was to give an account of what it was like to have GCS with Mr Ives in Melbourne I will be reading the forums but not necessarily responding. I have my next Post op follow up with Mr Ives and Iffy at the end of January; we will see from there what changes.

I set out at the beginning of this thread to try and give anyone thinking about GCS, having GCS or wondering what it's like to have GCS here in Australia in Melbourne the straigh forward druim on my experience which overall whaty good..

I have shared my preparation which came with its own set of challenges  ;D  introduced you to the joys of physical hair removal, we have been on a journey of jumping not just through but over and under hoops. We have plumbed the depths of despair when dates were changed and airfares and accommodation costs were teetering on being lost seeing the whole enterprise come tumbling down to the joys of things working better than I could have imagined. You were with me through the long days weeks hour and minutes wait to surgery, and there to greet me when it was behind me...You were there to witness the joy of renewal and you were there to be introduced to the realities of being post GCS life.....but now this next part, this recovery of my body and my psyche...well my dear friends, and there are so many of you, that part, is mine to do mostly on my own.... it won't be long till the next update. :)

Hopefully one day soon my recovery will be a small part of my life and not its entire focus. I don't imagine it will be to long before I can post update but in the meantime I will be around the forums.  ;) :)

Take Care

Liz
Liz
Thank you so much for this thread.  Australian GCS surgeons are thin on the ground and information is not readily available.  Your detailed and frank account of your journey has been extremely encouraging.   Based on your positive experience and Cindy's recommendation I have booked a consult with Andrew Ives in April.
Thank you so much.
Safe travels
Aisla

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Northern Star Girl

@LizK
Dear Liz:
This past year since I have met you on the Forums has been most enjoyable. 
I have very much enjoyed swapping comments and thoughts with you on your thread, my thread, and on various threads around the Forums.
Obviously there are some bumps in the road that all of us experience so we continue to hang on for an exciting ride.

It was wonderful for me to meet you on the Forums this past year...
I have so much enjoyed your updates as you continue on in your journey.
Thank you for feeling free to share your life events with all of us.   

I am so very happy that I found you and your thread on the Forums this last year and I will be eagerly following your upcoming reports and updates in the New Year in 2019.

Wishing you a very HAPPY NEW YEAR   in 2019...

Hugs and as always, well wishes.

Danielle
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