It is like the 'latent image' mentioned in 'The Matrix'. We are so used to seeing that same face in the mirror year after year, decade after decade, that we are the last to see what others see. I have noticed that a smile makes a huge difference, probably because smiles were rare for 'him'. I have been full time for nearly nine months, and only within the last month or two have I started seeing what others see -- and I still have a hard time believing it. Have patience, it will get better.
Love always -- Jessica Rose