Hi Leah,
I don't live in Missouri, but I do see a therapist. In fact, I met with her earlier this afternoon. What I can do is ask if your therapist specializes in transgender issues. If so, then he or she will likely be a resourceful guide in your journey. If not, then you might educate him or her more than he or she is able to help you. That is my suggestion: see a therapist who works with the transgender community if you're going for gender therapy. I wish you all the best!
Danielle