Some of us reside in places where the culture only accepts gender identities of Male or Female, and conflates these identities with presentation and anatomy. The gender binary is enforced by law and various bureaucratic functions, in ways that interact with such personal activities as using a restroom or passing a security checkpoint. This makes life much more difficult, to the point of being personally dangerous, to claim any other identity.
There is a cultural alienation process often referred to as 'Othering', casting the Other in the role of an alien, an interloper to be shunned. Claiming a gender identity other than Male or Female, such as "Transgender Female", will result in Othering. Being seen as a noncompliant gender identity will result in Othering.
Persons seen as Other may be declared to exist in violation of religious or personal beliefs, and may freely be discriminated against in most places in this country. Such discrimination includes but is not limited to loss of employment, loss of shelter, loss of access to basic emergency services (yes, an ambulance, doctors, and emergency rools have all declined to care for trans persons on this basis).
I reject the attempts here to Other me.
I am a woman, 65 years old, and a lesbian with a 30% chance of queer. I arrived at this state through my history of being a transgender person. Transgender describes how I got here, not my gender identity.
I, and only I determine my identity. I and only I have the experience of living in this body, and only I can define, describe, and designate my identity.
I reject any attempt by any other person to force an identity upon me, and will resist this to my last breath.
I have survived one attempt to force me to accept another gender identity, through so-called 'conversion therapy', and will resist any attempt to coerce, convince, or cajole me into accepting any identity other than MINE.