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That's just it isn't it?
We are doing all we can to be a woman right? It's against what we want right? It has to be wrong... right? Nein darling. Don't believe it, don't fall into that trap.
Why transition to exchange one set of rules for another? Okay, I don't want anyone to touch it, not at all, never have. Not an, "I am a girl thing" but a ,"I got molested and raped so young and so often that the thought of someone touching it makes me vomit." thing. Sexual desire is a normal part of being human so who is going to take care of that for me if no one else is allowed to? I am no less a girl because of it. I will get my surgery until then, with a guy or by myself, it is what I have to work with. Truthfully it gets so old faking an orgasm when I can have the real thing, he is happy and I am happy.
Forget what anyone else thinks about it, what they think, what we here think, is unimportant. What makes us a woman is above the neck and not below the belly button, if not everyone here needs to go home and figure out a new plan.
I am 5'4", I am petite, I have always felt this way, my boobs are big, my waist is narrow, this is so natural for me... I can't stand to touch it. Confirming but ultimately damaging things that I have heard here over and over again. Maybe everyone here is the perfect woman, I seriously doubt it however, most women that were born with the right genitalia are not perfect women.
I am 5'10", I am not petite, I have always felt this way, my boobs are okay, my waist is narrower than my hips but my hips are huge, I had to work at this... I don't mind touching it. I also live fully as a woman and have for years. My church going girlfriends know about me and have no problem sitting in the stall next to me in the bathroom. I tell someone that I am 49 and they freak, I tell someone that I am trans and they look at me like I am speaking a different language.
Being you is okay, being human is okay, thinking that there is one true way is sooooo not okay.
Relax, it is okay if you do, it is okay if you don't. It won't hurt transition if you do and won't fast track transition if you don't. Please don't feel guilty though. It is time for all of us to let that emotion go.