So the awake part of the 3rd day post op morning (Thursday surgery it's not Sunday 9:30am)
Dr Schechter came in this morning, which was a surprise. I didn't expect to see him today. He was happy and even joking around in a serious way. Apparently I'm doing well. Swelling is diminishing, oozing has basically stopped, no bleeding and almost no pain. Honestly, I don't get it. I'm uncomfortable but seriously no pain, okay when I cough the world is ending, but that's very normal.
The Fellow that works with Schechter (Alex something) came in a bit later on a social call (he's really REALLY cute but I suspect not interested

and we chatted for quite some time about general what's going on down below and some other questions I had. My friend Patti, who hopes to have GCS with Schechter later this year, was here too. She had questions that were answered too.
I would say that if you have the opportunity to stay with someone post op, consider it. I know Patti and Chrissy are both better prepared for surgery and know what to expect.
As for everyone reading this thread my whole care team and I agree that attitude is the number one thing for your well being in the hospital post surgery. You can be fun and uplifting or you can be a downer and a jerk. Be the former. I'm joking and having fun with everyone who comes in to see me. When they leave I want everyone to have a smile on their face. Hospital workers are doing a really tough job and are under appreciated. I'm trying to make their day a little less icky.
PT should be here shortly and I should be given clearance to walk around all I want (and I want to walk around a lot!) Alex did say I'm not allowed to walk home (2 miles/3km) after discharge. Ahhh, maybe when they're not looking I'll sneak home.
I'll post an update later. With the exception of trying to sleep, it's been a positive experience.